Biblical Dating: An Introduction :

“Modern dating tends to be egalitarian (no differences between men and women in spiritual or emotional ‘wiring’ or God-given roles). Biblical dating tends to be complimentarian (God has created men and women differently and has ordained each of these spiritual equals to play different and valuable roles in the church and in the family). Modern dating tends to assume that you will spend a great deal of time together (most of it alone). Biblical dating tends to encourage time spent in group activities or with other people the couple knows well. Modern dating tends to assume that you need to get to know a person more deeply than anyone else in the world to figure out whether you should be with him or her. The biblical approach suggests that real commitment to the other person should precede such a high level of intimacy.”

The first part of the article aside, the comparisons between modern and Biblical dating are helpful. They offer so principles that need to be surrendered to have the closest to God’s best.