A culture of, “Don’t blaim me.”
And just as we were beginning to acknowledge this and trying to overcome the stigma attached to the disease our attention has been diverted by court cases in which people infected with HIV, mostly men, have been convicted for conduct that risks, or is simply perceived to risk, transferring the disease.
Johnson Aziga of Hamilton is the first person in Canada — possibly in the world — to be convicted of first-degree murder for having unprotected sexual intercourse with two women without telling them that he was HIV positive. He’s received a “life” sentence.
This has to be one of the most striking and disturbing articles of the day. Here’s the logic:
Forget the fact that this man knew what he was doing would kill. Forget the reality that he got the ability to bring that kiss of death through his own actions. Forget the fact that he lied to get that ability to bring this kiss of death to another. Let’s blame the victim of this deadly gift for the crime of trusting him and curse the injustice of the legal system for arresting him for this deliberate homicidal act.
Why? Well, here’s the logic: We live in a world of AIDS where everyone should live in fear of this pervasive plague or at least some other STD.
Really? Lets talk about a pervasive plague that impacts around 2/3rds of one percent (0.7%) of the population, is mostly transmitted by male on male sex (40—49% of new cases) and, in the United States, a known population (African Americans) make up about 48% of the total HIV-positive population and more than half of new HIV cases — despite making up only 12% of the population.
Is it any wonder that, so called, condom fatigue has set in? Is it any wonder that the general public still seems to think of STD’s in terms of chlamydia or the like? Is it any wonder that a few (Yes, even at the chlamydia level) very foolish individuals have begun playing a condom free game of Russian Roulette and could also be at risk to this order of calculated homicide?
Naw — let’s decry the failure to, “Overcome the stigma attached to the disease.” In English, that means, “Convince the population that this is everyone’s problem instead of still mostly being the byproduct of limited (Mostly homosexual) extremely high risk behaviors centered in a known population.” It means, “Ignore that there are some who actually pursue infection with the HIV virus.” It means, “Let’s all act like it makes sense to pretend obvious and rampant irresponsibility on the part of one known population group should be destigmatized while demanding hyper-responsibility in another.”
Once again, forget standing up, telling the truth about where the problem is centered and demanding that the core of the problem deal with it. Let’s deflect it by talking about other STD’s and make the whole world responsible.
Is it any wonder this completely preventable disease called HIV/AIDS is not going away?






April 12th, 2009 at 9:24 pm
In African cultures where HIV infects up to 45% of the population of some countries, the ratio of female to male carriers is 60/40. The heterosexual female is the most at risk person, over the homosexual male. HIV/AIDS in Africa is truly an epidemic that crosses gender, age, ethnicity, etc., and is rampant with virtually every tribal family affected, in one way or another.
Contrast North America, where 40-49% of new cases are the homosexual male, and in amongst them, the bug chasers. We dare to consider destigmatizing this group, because it is not ‘nice’ to label and categorize people. In our culture, HIV is very much still a gay mans disease, with ever ready potential to cross and spread into the heterosexual community. No!!! Let’s stand up and call HIV what it is, and hold those who are HIV positive with the utmost in responsibility and accountability, even to the point of charges of first degree murder for undisclosed unprotected sex.
April 13th, 2009 at 12:24 am
Hi Cheryl,
I hear you.
The irony of his article is that it would have been completely valid in Africa (If anyone there even cared about this sort of fuzzy logic.)
Yet, trying to sell this attitude in North America is a pretty big step in the direction of GETTING Africa’s situation to be the reality here.
Cal