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		<title>THE WAY GOD REVEALS HEALING BY HIS LIFE/LOVE</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2010/03/07/ros/the-way-god-reveals-healing-by-his-lifelove/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 14:24:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Session Notes: 

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The God Who Speaks &#8211; July 7, 2006
I was gearing up for soul-restoration, not issues-exploration. But Cam is usually right, so I kept my eyes open and asked the Lord for a strategy. Sure enough, not long into my &#8220;breather&#8221;, up came some &#8220;stuff&#8221; that wants to bully me towards isolation. How do [...]]]></description>
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<p></p><p>The God Who Speaks &#8211; July 7, 2006
I was gearing up for soul-restoration, not issues-exploration. But Cam is usually right, so I kept my eyes open and asked the Lord for a strategy. Sure enough, not long into my &#8220;breather&#8221;, up came some &#8220;stuff&#8221; that wants to bully me towards isolation. How do you rest when old insecurities, temptations, or &#8220;demons&#8221; rise up when you finally still your heart? Or am I the only one who didn&#8217;t automatically get all his shortcomings washed away at baptism? If not, read on:</p>

<p>The Lord showed me that during a time of rest, first of all, I don&#8217;t need to go digging for my issues. They will surface on their own, thankyou very much.</p>

<p>Second, when they surface, I don&#8217;t need to work at fixing things. Rather, I can sit WITH them in HIS PRESENCE, allowing them to RIPEN. That way, instead of running around the tree of my life picking off old &#8220;bad&#8221; fruit, I can sit at the tree of HIS LIFE /the Cross) and let the fruit simply rot and fall off. I found that this took some patience and a little courage. But to extend the tree analogy, it was a reminder that Christ is the Pruner&#8230; not me. And if you give Him a chance, He is faithful to do it. I hardly had to help him; my role was to simply ripen in His presence. SOOO restful&#8230; in fact, the biggest breakthrough came just this morning through a one-minute dream. It was Jesus, teaching me &#8220;the unforced rhythms of grace&#8221; (Matt. 11:28 MSG).</p>

<p>And third, it dawned on me, &#8220;Why don&#8217;t I ALWAYS take this approach?&#8221; Perhaps there is a time to take the initiative and really pursue one&#8217;s healing ruthlessly and thoroughly&#8230; but I&#8217;ll ask Jesus about that later. After my rest. In the mean time, can I challenge you to ask the Lord if there&#8217;s anything &#8220;in your face&#8221; that He&#8217;d like to have ripen in His presence.</p>

<p>Brad Jersak</p>

<p>This is an inspiring article!!!  I pray we can allow God to reveal His healing love to us, our families, friends, clients, churches, school, and world.</p>
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		<title>Steve McVey</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/12/21/ros/steve-mcvey-3/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 16:01:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Steve McVey: 

&#8220;&#8216;My feelings were aroused for him&#8217; (5:4). That happened to us all when Jesus swept us off our feet and we trusted Him.

Don&#8217;t think it irreverent to view Christ in a romantic way. He is the One who calls us His bride. He is the One who wrote to us in terms of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><a href="http://www.gracewalkministries.blogspot.com/">Steve McVey</a>: </p>

<p></p><p><blockquote>&#8220;&lsquo;My feelings were aroused for him&rsquo; (5:4). That happened to us all when Jesus swept us off our feet and we trusted Him.</blockquote></p>

<p>Don&rsquo;t think it irreverent to view Christ in a romantic way. He is the One who calls us His bride. He is the One who wrote to us in terms of passion and romance. We simply respond to Him. &lsquo;We love Him because He first love us&rsquo; (1 John 4:19). We didn&rsquo;t initiate or set the pace for this relationship. He did. We have simply responded to His irresistible charm, affirming by faith, &lsquo;My beloved is mine and I am His&rsquo; (Song of Solomon 2:16)! Like every new bride, our profession of faith in Him is nothing less than the thrilling realization that, &lsquo;I am my beloved&rsquo;s and his desire is for me&rsquo; (7:10, emphasis added)!</p>

<p>I didn&rsquo;t imagine the idea of the dance as a literary metaphor to describe your relationship to Him. That is how He described it. In Zephaniah 3:17, the Bible says, &lsquo;He will exult over you with joy&rsquo; (emphasis added). Strong&rsquo;s Concordance defines the word &lsquo;exult&rsquo;(sometimes translated &lsquo;rejoice&rsquo;) in the following way: &lsquo;To spin around under the influence of a violent emotion.&rsquo; </p>

<p>One character quipped, &lsquo;I grew up in a church where we were taught that premarital sex was wrong because it might lead to dancing, and now you tell me that the Lord dances over me??&rsquo; It&rsquo;s true, He does. The love of Jesus Christ for you is not just a &lsquo;gentle Jesus, meek and mild&rsquo; kind of love. It is a love filled with passion. It is a love that caused your Prince Charming to wield His sword (of the Spirit) and fight the dragon (the devil, see Revelation 12:9) for you! </p>

<p>His love for you is great! One might say that the love of Jesus for you could be X-rated, not because of impurity, but because of intensity. Does that idea make you feel uncomfortable? It shouldn&rsquo;t, because He really does love you with an intensity beyond human comprehension. You are the pearl of great price for which He paid everything He owned in order to possess you. (See Matthew 13:45-46) </p> BE NOT AFRAID OF AN INTENSE LOVE FROM HIM, HIS LOVE IS INTENSE, BUT HIS WAYS ARE GENTLE.

<p></p><p>I pray this love for us/clients/schools/the world in all our intimate relationships, especially receiving it from our Father/Mother God.  </p>
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		<title>Personal Responsibility Vs God&#8217;s Will</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/12/02/ros/personal-responsibility-vs-gods-will/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:35:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Steve McVey: 

&#8221; If the spirit of Picasso rested within you, a great desire to paint would continually motivate you toward the canvass. The knowledge of who was within you would be all the motivation you needed.

The good news of grace is that Jesus Christ is in you.&#8221;

This is a powerful visionary article on the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalkministries.blogspot.com/">Steve McVey</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8221; If the spirit of Picasso rested within you, a great desire to paint would continually motivate you toward the canvass. The knowledge of who was within you would be all the motivation you needed.

The good news of grace is that Jesus Christ is in you.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p>This is a powerful visionary article on the way the J.C&#8217;s Spirit of grace/truth transforms us.  May it be so for me, my family, friends, clients, and world.</p>
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		<title>God is Not Judgemental</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/11/29/ros/god-is-not-judgemental/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Nov 2009 20:57:07 +0000</pubDate>
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&#8220;. If the world only understood the truth about the love of Father, so many more would come to Him in faith. Sadly, their understanding is often a distorted caricature of who He really is.

One reason it is so important to understand and accept your Father&#8217;s love is because we all eventually become [...]]]></description>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;. If the world only understood the truth about the love of Father, so many more would come to Him in faith. Sadly, their understanding is often a distorted caricature of who He really is.

One reason it is so important to understand and accept your Father&#8217;s love is because we all eventually become like the whatever we imagine God to be. People trapped in legalism see God as a judgmental, cosmic eye-in-the-sky who is watching and waiting for them to mess up in the way they live. They imagine that how they behave is what matters most to Him. Consequently, that&#8217;s the kind of person they become in the way they relate to other people. They become harsh parents, demanding friends, dictator-type pastors, etc. 
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<p></p><p>I pray we understand and accept God&#8217;s unconditional love for us/our family/friends/clients/world as well. </p>
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		<title>IT IS OUR PROBLEMS THAT GOD REVEALS HE&#8217;S IN CONTROL</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/10/20/ros/it-is-our-problems-that-god-reveals-hes-in-control/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 16:29:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Being Broken From The Need To Control &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;Relax, and enjoy your journey. Rest in your Father&#8217;s sovereignty. Your life is an adventure, planned and performed by Him. We grow weary when we try to do what He alone can do. It is through our trials [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28362">Being Broken From The Need To Control &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Relax, and enjoy your journey. Rest in your Father&rsquo;s sovereignty. Your life is an adventure, planned and performed by Him. We grow weary when we try to do what He alone can do. It is through our trials that He will lift our controlling need to be in charge. We must see that we are not in charge, but God alone determines and controls the unfolding of our destiny. Control is an arena for which we are not suited. Our Father, on the other hand, is perfectly suited for that role.

So let go. Lay down your life for His sake and you will find it. Cling to your own life and you will lose it. Zoe (an authentic, abundant life) is yours. Don&rsquo;t forfeit it for bios (biological life, mundane existence). If that is your deep desire, join in heartfelt agreement with this prayer:

Father, move in me and through me to lay down my agenda and my control and trust You alone. Thank you that You will complete the work you have begun in me. I yield my circumstances to You and ask You to teach me to trust You more through all of it. Bring me to maturity, according to Your plan.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL ARTICLES!!!  I PRAY WWHEN WE, OUR FAMILIES, FRIENDS, CLIENTS, SCHOOLS, AND WORLD FEEL BROKEN HEARTED THAT WE REST to feel content in all circumstances according to HIS PLAN. </p>
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		<title>Promises In Spite of Your Past</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 15:32:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Overcoming A Bad Family Background &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;Don&#8217;t be held captive by your past. It isn&#8217;t necessary to pretend your heritage is something other than what it really was, but you don&#8217;t have to be held back by it. When Jesus Christ gave you His life, His [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28360">Overcoming A Bad Family Background &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Don&rsquo;t be held captive by your past. It isn&rsquo;t necessary to pretend your heritage is something other than what it really was, but you don&rsquo;t have to be held back by it. When Jesus Christ gave you His life, His past became your past. You received a new heritage. The new you has been in Him since the foundation of the world. (See Ephesians 1:4) You aren&rsquo;t who you used to be. (See 2 Corinthians 5:17) You aren&rsquo;t the sum of your family&rsquo;s past. You are who God made you to be &#8211; a divine work of art (see Ephesians 2:10), endowed with supernatural potential (see Philippians 4:13).

In Christ, your future is as bright as the promises of God! Don&rsquo;t allow yourself to be trapped by lies which suggest that you&rsquo;ll never make it in life. You will make it because you have been delivered from your background. Your future hinges on the loving faithfulness of God and He can be trusted.

The Psalmist wrote: &lsquo;Your goodness is so great! You have stored up blessings for those who honor you. You have done so much for those who come to you for protection, blessing them before the watching world!&rsquo; (Psalm 31:19)

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<p></p><p>This is an inspiring article! I pray this article for us, our families, friends, schools, clients, and world.</p>
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		<title>Only Jesus Not Us</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 16:04:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s All Him &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;Have you ever noticed our tendency to push ourselves into the starring role of the stories told in the Bible? For instance, consider the story of &#8216;the good Samaritan.&#8217; Most sermons I&#8217;ve ever heard about that text makes the main application be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28357">It&#8217;s All Him &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Have you ever noticed our tendency to push ourselves into the starring role of the stories told in the Bible? For instance, consider the story of &lsquo;the good Samaritan.&rsquo; Most sermons I&rsquo;ve ever heard about that text makes the main application be that &lsquo;we shouldn&rsquo;t be like the lawyer or the priest who passed by the wounded man without helping him. We should be like the good Samaritan.&rsquo;

In reality, that&rsquo;s not the meaning of the story. It&rsquo;s not a moral lesson that the Bible is trying to teach us here. Through that story, Jesus was teaching us about Himself. The main lesson isn&rsquo;t that we are to help the pitiful, helpless man. It&rsquo;s that we are the pitiful, helpless man. Jesus is the Good Samaritan who found us after legalism and devout religion didn&rsquo;t lift a finger to help us.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>I pray the Spirit teaches us that it is all about Jesus as Saviour and not us.  </p>
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		<title>Life Decisions</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/10/07/ros/life-decisions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 15:44:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The People Pleasers &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;God gives you the desires of your heart. He places them there, but if you don&#8217;t know who you are you may spend your whole life trying to fulfill other people&#8217;s plan for your life. Many a frustrated Christian has struggled with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28348">The People Pleasers &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;God gives you the desires of your heart. He places them there, but if you don&rsquo;t know who you are you may spend your whole life trying to fulfill other people&rsquo;s plan for your life. Many a frustrated Christian has struggled with finding fulfillment in life because they&rsquo;re trying to be something and do something they&rsquo;ve never been called by God to do.

The meaning of grace, in part, is &lsquo;divine enablement.&rsquo; By His grace, God enables you to be all that He has called you to be and do all that He has called you to do. But remember this: His grace doesn&rsquo;t empower you to be and do what somebody else has called you to do.

Who God has made you to be is wonderful, so you must resolve to be that person. Any effort to be somebody else is an affront to God because it suggests that you (or others) better know who you&rsquo;re supposed to be and what you&rsquo;re supposed to be doing. Don&rsquo;t live for other people. It will wear you out.

Instead, live from the identity in Christ that your Father has given you. Then you will be free to be and do all that you were designed for. The Apostle Paul once said, &lsquo;I&rsquo;m not trying to be a people-pleaser!&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a good article except the pleasing God section and some law.  I pray we do not hamper the SPIRIT IN OTHERS BY OUR EXPECTATIONS FOR THEM.  </p>
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		<title>Organization</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/10/06/ros/organization/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 05:20:51 +0000</pubDate>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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		<title>Grace For God&#8217;s Change/Standards</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/10/05/ros/grace-for-gods-changestandards/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 14:29:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Forgiving Ourselves &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;&#8216;I know that God has forgiven me, but I just can&#8217;t forgive myself,&#8217; someone recently said to me after describing a recent period of time in his life when he had made the choice to repeatedly commit the same sin again and again. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28346">Forgiving Ourselves &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;&lsquo;I know that God has forgiven me, but I just can&rsquo;t forgive myself,&rsquo; someone recently said to me after describing a recent period of time in his life when he had made the choice to repeatedly commit the same sin again and again. As Christians always do, he had finally reached the place where he couldn&rsquo;t stand the thought of living like that for the rest of this life. So he cried out to his Deliverer and the cycle of sin was broken.
The foolish behavior was now a thing of the past, but he couldn&rsquo;t disconnect from it mentally and emotionally. A sense of guilt and self-condemnation was draining him of his energy, enthusiasm and joy. He wasn&rsquo;t still committing the sin, but was as miserable as he had been when he was.

&lsquo;So you do believe that God has forgiven you?&rsquo; I asked.

&lsquo;Yes,&rsquo; he answered, &lsquo;but I can&rsquo;t forgive myself for what I&rsquo;ve done. I&rsquo;ve been a Christian long enough to know better.&rsquo;

After we had talked awhile and nothing I said seemed to be sinking in, I finally asked him, &lsquo;Do you think you&rsquo;re better than God?&rsquo;

&lsquo;What do you mean?&rsquo; he asked.

&lsquo;I mean that if the blood of Christ is sufficient for God to look at you and say, &lsquo;Forgiven,&rsquo; what will it take for you to forgive yourself? If the death of Jesus Christ on the cross for this sin you committed isn&rsquo;t enough for you, what will it take? You&rsquo;ve set a standard for yourself that is obviously higher than the one God has set.&rsquo;&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a great encouragement to allow children the grace for God to change them!  There is no need for guilt/drivenness.  May it be so for the world.</p>
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		<title>J.C&#8217;s Spirit Teaching Us to Be Open Again</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/10/02/ros/j-cs-spirit-teaching-us-to-be-open-again/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 16:04:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Canned Goods and Closed Hearts &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;My parent&#8217;s generation had known what is was like to be without food. Consequently, somewhere deep inside them a voice must have said, &#8216;I will never be caught without enough food to eat again.&#8217; Thus, the massive inventory of canned [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28342">Canned Goods and Closed Hearts &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;My parent&rsquo;s generation had known what is was like to be without food. Consequently, somewhere deep inside them a voice must have said, &lsquo;I will never be caught without enough food to eat again.&rsquo; Thus, the massive inventory of canned goods. Come what may in life, there would be food in the cabinets.

I think that&rsquo;s how many of us face most areas of our lives. We have faced circumstances at times that created a sense of loss or need within us. Because the situation was painful, somewhere deep inside us, we said, &lsquo;This won&rsquo;t ever happen to me again.&rsquo; So we hoarded what we have and shut the cabinet door. We went into the self-protection mode.

Some were hurt by a friend and have now closed the door on vulnerability. They&rsquo;ll never trust another person as a true friend. Others have had a marriage go sour. Today, they won&rsquo;t completely open up to their mate because of fear. If they give everything, they risk losing everything again. Some were burned at church. Now, they have lumped all churches in the same hypocritical pile and won&rsquo;t become an integral part of a church fellowship.

The hurts differ, but the response is common. Shut the door of my heart and don&rsquo;t risk losing what I have or being hurt. After all, if it happened once, . . .

What &lsquo;great depression&rsquo; have you experienced in life? What commodity did you feel you had taken from you when you needed it most? Was it trust? Love? Friendship? What have you lost?

As a result have you tried to stuff those things deep inside you that you don&rsquo;t want to ever lose again? Are you fearful to take them out? Have you resolved that you&rsquo;ll never find yourself in that kind of situation again?&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a great article which describes what happens when a person who has been hurt in turn hurts another.  I pray J.C&#8217;s Spirit will teach the us, our families, friends, clients, schools, and world to be vlulnerable again in life. God show us other&#8217;s hearts/hurts so we will not feel a hint of judgement. </p>
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		<title>Beautiful Promises of the Jesus&#8217; Spirit in Us</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 17:21:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Heavenly Father, I Am Your Child &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;Every blessing in Christ Jesus is already mine. (See Ephesians 1:3) By faith, I will enter in to the grace-filled walk that you have prepared for me. (See Romans 5:2) I am everything you say I am. (See1 Corinthians [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28341">Heavenly Father, I Am Your Child &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Every blessing in Christ Jesus is already mine. (See Ephesians 1:3) By faith, I will enter in to the grace-filled walk that you have prepared for me. (See Romans 5:2) I am everything you say I am. (See1 Corinthians 15:10) I can do everything you have called me to do. (See Philippians 4:13) I can have all that you have called me to have. (See Psalm 84:11)

My days will only grow brighter.(See Proverbs 4:18) Your favor is upon me and will never leave me.(See Lamentations 3:22-23) Nothing that comes my way can harm me. (See Isaiah 54:17) You orchestrate my circumstances so that everything works out for my good. (See Romans 8:28)&#160; Without wavering, I will hold tightly to the hope I say I have, because You can be trusted to keep your Promise. (See Hebrews 3:23)&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is beautiful!  I pray Jesus&#8217; Spirit teaches/reminds/lives these promises through us, our families, friends, schools, clients, and world every moment!</p>
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		<title>Promises of the Spirit</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/09/30/ros/promises-of-the-spirit/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 16:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A Love Letter From Your Father &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8221; I will do something new. Do you want to see it? I will make a way when there is no way. (43:18-19) I will go before you and make the rough places smooth. I will shatter the barriers [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28340">A Love Letter From Your Father &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8221; I will do something new. Do you want to see it? I will make a way when there is no way. (43:18-19) I will go before you and make the rough places smooth. I will shatter the barriers that block your way and will give you treasures, wealth from secret places so that you will know that it is I, the Lord God &#8220;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is so inspiring!!!  I pray Jesus&#8217; Spirit continues to teach us, our family, friends, clients, and world it!</p>
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		<title>The Way Bad/ &#8220;Sin&#8221; Disappears In Us</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/09/29/ros/the-way-bad-sin-disappears-in-us/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 17:16:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kudzu Christians &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8221; until we receive glorified bodies, we each possess the power of indwelling sin in our bodies. (See Romans 7:21-23) As we trust Christ at each moment, His life empowers us to walk in victory. However, when we fail to depend on Him, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28339">Kudzu Christians &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8221; until we receive glorified bodies, we each possess the power of indwelling sin in our bodies. (See Romans 7:21-23) As we trust Christ at each moment, His life empowers us to walk in victory. However, when we fail to depend on Him, we yield ourselves to the power of sin.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>The is a very good article on God revealing healing.  However it needs to be read in light of Jesus taking away sin and it&#8217;s power by us being open to it/Him by faith.  May it be so that we depend of Jesus every moment to experience the victory.  </p>
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		<title>Grace Shines Brightest In Our Pain</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 01:26:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When We Feel Nothing &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;hen we feel nothing, God&#8217;s grace shines brightest. It&#8217;s one thing to trust Him when everything is going our way, but when circumstances close in on us, trusting Him is evidence of supernatural grace flowing through us. Do you find yourself [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28337">When We Feel Nothing &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;hen we feel nothing, God&rsquo;s grace shines brightest. It&rsquo;s one thing to trust Him when everything is going our way, but when circumstances close in on us, trusting Him is evidence of supernatural grace flowing through us. Do you find yourself not feeling the &lsquo;joy of the Lord&rsquo; the way you want? If so, be assured you&rsquo;re at a place where the current of grace can run deeper and wider than usual in you.

Whether you feel His presence or not, just trust Him. Be assured that He knows the path you are walking and He is quietly walking it with you. Cling to Jesus and know that the Sun will shine again for one simple reason &#8211; Great is His faithfulness.
&#160;&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>I pray the spirit would teach us/the world the comfort of His grace in our painful times.</p>
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		<title>The Way the Spirit of Love Promotes Trust in God</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 15:06:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just Play &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;Joyfully embrace every day and live with the certainty that your Father&#8217;s heart is set on you and on the purpose of thrilling you with His love. Let Him love the bondage of adulthood from your heart until it is filled only with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28332">Just Play &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Joyfully embrace every day and live with the certainty that your Father&rsquo;s heart is set on you and on the purpose of thrilling you with His love. Let Him love the bondage of adulthood from your heart until it is filled only with a childlike attitude that trusts Him and embraces the world with enthusiasm.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a great article that highlights the faith we are to have like some aspects children possess.  May it be so that we, our family, friends, clients, and the world allow THE SPIRIT to facilitate it rather than try to get the understanding ourselves.  </p>
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		<title>Too Much Iron?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 18:27:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hemochromatosis: 

&#8220;What are the symptoms of hemochromatosis?

Joint pain is the most common complaint of people with hemochromatosis. Other common symptoms include fatigue, lack of energy, abdominal pain, loss of sex drive, and heart problems. However, many people have no symptoms when they are diagnosed.

If the disease is not detected and treated early, iron may accumulate [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://digestive.niddk.nih.gov/ddiseases/pubs/hemochromatosis/index.htm">Hemochromatosis</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;What are the symptoms of hemochromatosis?

Joint pain is the most common complaint of people with hemochromatosis. Other common symptoms include fatigue, lack of energy, abdominal pain, loss of sex drive, and heart problems. However, many people have no symptoms when they are diagnosed.

If the disease is not detected and treated early, iron may accumulate in body tissues and eventually lead to serious problems such as

arthritis
liver disease, including an enlarged liver, cirrhosis, cancer, and liver failure
damage to the pancreas, possibly causing diabetes
heart abnormalities, such as irregular heart rhythms or congestive heart failure
impotence
early menopause
abnormal pigmentation of the skin, making it look gray or bronze
thyroid deficiency
damage to the adrenal glands
[Top]

How is hemochromatosis diagnosed?

A thorough medical history, physical examination, and routine blood tests help rule out other conditions that could be causing the symptoms. This information often provides helpful clues, such as a family history of arthritis or unexplained liver disease.

Blood tests can determine whether the amount of iron stored in the body is too high. The transferrin saturation test reveals how much iron is bound to the protein that carries iron in the blood. Transferrin saturation values higher than 45 percent are considered too high.

The total iron binding capacity test measures how well your blood can transport iron, and the serum ferritin test shows the level of iron in the liver. If either of these tests shows higher than normal levels of iron in the body, doctors can order a special blood test to detect the HFE mutation, which will confirm the diagnosis. If the mutation is not present, hereditary hemochromatosis is not the reason for the iron buildup and the doctor will look for other causes.

A liver biopsy may be needed, in which case a tiny piece of liver tissue is removed and examined with a microscope. The biopsy will show how much iron has accumulated in the liver and whether the liver is damaged.

Hemochromatosis is considered rare and doctors may not think to test for it. Thus, the disease is often not diagnosed or treated. &#8220;</blockquote></p>

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		<title>Iron sources</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:56:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nutritional Sources of Iron: 

&#8220;Food Sources of Iron:
Almonds
Apricots
Avocados
Beets (and greens)
Black cherries
Blackstrap molasses
Brewer&#8217;s yeast
Broccoli, raw
Cereals
Chicken
Cocoa powder
Cod
Dates
Dried fruit
Dulse
Eggs
Enriched breads
Fish
Green leafy vegetables
Haddock
Kelp
Kidney beans
Lentils
Lima beans
Liver
Meat
Millet
Offal
Peaches
Pears
Peas, fresh, cooked
Poultry
Prunes (dried)
Pumpkins
Raisins
Rice and wheat bran
Sesame seeds
Shellfish
Soybeans
Spinach, raw, chopped
Sunflower seeds
Turkey
Watercress
Wheat bran
Whole grains
&#160;
Herb Sources of Iron:
Alfalfa
Burdock root
Catnip
Cayenne
Chamomile
Chickweed
Chicory
Dandelion
Dong Quai
Eyebright
Fennel seed
Fenugreek
Horsetail
Kelp
Lemongrass
Licorice
Milk thistle seed
Mullein
Nettle
Oat straw
Oysters
Paprika
Parsley
Peppermint
Plantain
Raspberry leaf
Rose hips
Sarsaparilla
Shepherd&#8217;s purse
Uva ursi
Yellow dock
&#160;&#8221;


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.naturalhealthtechniques.com/Diet_Nutrition/iron.htm">Nutritional Sources of Iron</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Food Sources of Iron:
Almonds
Apricots
Avocados
Beets (and greens)
Black cherries
Blackstrap molasses
Brewer&rsquo;s yeast
Broccoli, raw
Cereals
Chicken
Cocoa powder
Cod
Dates
Dried fruit
Dulse
Eggs
Enriched breads
Fish
Green leafy vegetables
Haddock
Kelp
Kidney beans
Lentils
Lima beans
Liver
Meat
Millet
Offal
Peaches
Pears
Peas, fresh, cooked
Poultry
Prunes (dried)
Pumpkins
Raisins
Rice and wheat bran
Sesame seeds
Shellfish
Soybeans
Spinach, raw, chopped
Sunflower seeds
Turkey
Watercress
Wheat bran
Whole grains
&#160;
Herb Sources of Iron:
Alfalfa
Burdock root
Catnip
Cayenne
Chamomile
Chickweed
Chicory
Dandelion
Dong Quai
Eyebright
Fennel seed
Fenugreek
Horsetail
Kelp
Lemongrass
Licorice
Milk thistle seed
Mullein
Nettle
Oat straw
Oysters
Paprika
Parsley
Peppermint
Plantain
Raspberry leaf
Rose hips
Sarsaparilla
Shepherd&rsquo;s purse
Uva ursi
Yellow dock
&#160;&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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		<title>Why Restless Body Syndrome?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:53:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Restless Leg Syndrome Is Not An Opiate Deficiency &#124; PromolifeNews.com: 

&#8220;The medical community is a bit dumbfounded by RLS, partly because the people who suffer from it have difficulty explaining the sensations they are experiencing and partly because doctors consider the condition a minor annoyance with little reason to take it seriously.

RLS, or Ekbom&#8217;s Syndrome, [...]]]></description>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;The medical community is a bit dumbfounded by RLS, partly because the people who suffer from it have difficulty explaining the sensations they are experiencing and partly because doctors consider the condition a minor annoyance with little reason to take it seriously.

RLS, or Ekbom&rsquo;s Syndrome, is considered a neurological condition which effects some segments of the population more than others. Women, the elderly and obese people appear to have a higher incidence of RLS than others. There seems to be a genetic factor as well.

Right now the medical community is of the belief that RLS is caused by a dopamine imbalance in the brain. As many know, dopamine helps to control moods or create a sense of wellbeing. What many don&rsquo;t know is that dopamine also plays a part in the body&rsquo;s ability to move. Iron is essential in the production of dopamine so more naturalistic doctors are treating RLS with iron supplements to increase dopamine production.

Other doctors are going straight for the drug cabinet. Three of the most common kinds of drugs used are Dopaminergic Agents, widely used to treat Parkinson&rsquo;s Disease because they regulate muscle action; Benzodiazepines that help suppress muscle action; and Opiates because of their ability to relax the person.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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		<description><![CDATA[Restless Legs Syndrome Support Group &#8211; DailyStrength: 

&#8220;All people with RLS should have their ferritin levels tested; ferritin levels should be at least 50 mcg for those with RLS. Oral iron supplements, taken under a doctor&#8217;s care, can increase ferritin levels. For some people, increasing ferritin will eliminate or reduce RLS symptoms. At least 40% [...]]]></description>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;All people with RLS should have their ferritin levels tested; ferritin levels should be at least 50 mcg for those with RLS. Oral iron supplements, taken under a doctor&#8217;s care, can increase ferritin levels. For some people, increasing ferritin will eliminate or reduce RLS symptoms. At least 40% of people will not notice any improvement, however. IV iron is being tested at the US Mayo Clinic as a method of treating RLS. It is dangerous to take iron supplements without first having ferritin levels tested, as many people with RLS do not have low ferritin and excess iron in the body can cause hemochromatosis, a very dangerous condition.

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		<description><![CDATA[How to Stop Restless Leg Syndrome &#124; eHow.com: 

&#8220;How to Stop Restless Leg Syndrome

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If you can&#8217;t seem to stop moving your legs moving around, or your legs are experiencing pain or discomfort on a regular basis, you could have Restless Leg Syndrome (RLS). This syndrome has now [...]]]></description>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;How to Stop Restless Leg Syndrome

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If you can&#8217;t seem to stop moving your legs moving around, or your legs are experiencing pain or discomfort on a regular basis, you could have Restless Leg Syndrome (RLS). This syndrome has now become more widely recognized, which means that there are many new treatments for it. If you have Restless Leg Syndrome, you can put a stop to it.

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Things You&#8217;ll Need:
Leg stretches Body pillow Calcium Magnesium Zinc Hot bath Heating pad Medications
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Stretch your legs before you go to bed. You will need to spend at least 10 to 15 minutes stretching out your legs. This alone has been known to get rid of restless leg syndrome. This is because most people experience symptoms as night when their legs are cramping up, and stretching prevents this.

Step
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Place a body pillow between your legs when you go to bed at night. You will need to be either on your left side or your right side. Lying on your back can contribute to Restless Leg Syndrome, so by laying on your side with your legs apart, you can eliminate all symptoms of RLS.

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Take a calcium, magnesium and zinc supplement before bed. These minerals will stop your muscles from cramping up when taken on a regular basis.

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Stay away from caffeine products after dinner. Stop using alcohol and tobacco all together. These affect many things in your body, and will make you more susceptible to cramping.

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Take a hot bath or use a heating pad on your legs before going to sleep. The heat will stimulate circulation and keep your legs from cramping up.

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Get a prescription from your doctor. Your doctor may choose to put you on something like Clonazepam and Diazepam. These drugs have side affects, so you should try all of the other steps first.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>Sometimes a good massage therapist specializing in this condition is helpful.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Achieve a Deep, Uninterrupted Sleep: Nighttime Habits &#124; Sleep &#124; Reader&#8217;s Digest: 

&#8220;Blessed sleep &#8212; the holy grail of health. Lack of sleep can send your blood sugar levels skyrocketing, contribute to weight gain, lead to depression, put you at risk for diabetes, and cause brain damage. 


Sleep deprivation can alter your levels of thyroid [...]]]></description>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Blessed sleep &#8212; the holy grail of health. Lack of sleep can send your blood sugar levels skyrocketing, contribute to weight gain, lead to depression, put you at risk for diabetes, and cause brain damage. 


Sleep deprivation can alter your levels of thyroid and stress hormones, potentially affecting everything from your memory to your immune system, heart, and metabolism.
That&#8217;s just the warm-up. Sleep deprivation can alter your levels of thyroid and stress hormones, potentially affecting everything from your memory to your immune system, heart, and metabolism. Of course, lack of sleep can kill you instantly &#8212; as when you run your car off the road because you&#8217;ve dozed at the wheel (an estimated 71,000 people are injured in fall-asleep crashes each year). In fact, studies find that if you&#8217;ve been awake through the night, it&#8217;s as if you had a performance impairment equal to .10 percent blood alcohol content, more than enough to get you arrested for drunk driving in most states. &#8220;</blockquote></p>

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		<description><![CDATA[Learning to Receive God&#8217;s Love &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;Imagine Jesus walking into the room where you are right now. He walks across the room and stands directly in front of you. He reaches out and puts His arms around you, and pulls you close to Himself to hug [...]]]></description>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Imagine Jesus walking into the room where you are right now. He walks across the room and stands directly in front of you. He reaches out and puts His arms around you, and pulls you close to Himself to hug you.

Relax. Still your busy mind. Just rest in His embrace. He gently presses His face against your own and quietly whispers in your ear, &lsquo;I love you so much. Do you know how proud I am of you? I love you more than you can possibly know. Sh-h-h. Be still and know that I love you.&rsquo; Listen to Him. Wait until you sense an inner calmness. Ask Him to speak a personal word, just to you. Listen. Do you hear His voice? Linger here, in this still, quiet place, and allow Him to express His love. Wait &#8211; until you know it is appropriate to resume normal activity. Revel in His love. Don&rsquo;t rush this exercise.

Are you uncomfortable with such an exercise as the one described in the preceding paragraphs? Is there anything unbiblical about what I have described? Is there anything untrue about the above scenario? Jesus does love you just as I have described. He does embrace you in His arms and longs to express His love to you in meaningful ways. I haven&rsquo;t asked you to pretend anything, but rather by faith to see in your mind&rsquo;s eye something that is real.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an excellent mediative exercise which facilitated me in shedding a tear! May the Father allow us to use our imagination to place our wishes before God and relax in His love.  This article offers great prayers to ask the Sprit to enable giving/receiving more love!</p>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;non-REM Sleep
The type of sleep not associated with dreams.&#160; There is some thinking in non-REM sleep but it is usually simple and fragmented.&#160; There are 4 sub-stages to non-REM sleep:
Stage 1 sleep:&#160; Is a transition from being awake to being asleep.&#160; Is almost worthless in terms of restorative value.&#160; Although you may be asleep you may also still be partially conscious.
Stage 2 sleep:&#160; Deeper than Stage 1 and is thought to aid in body recovery.
Stages 3 and 4:&#160; Also called Delta sleep.&#160; Delta sleep is a very deep sleep that is primarily associated with restoration / body recovery.
REM Sleep&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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		<title>Suggestions to Avoid Sleeping On Back</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sleep Centre - Online Class: 

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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Avoid sleeping on your back.&#160; Many people only snore or stop breathing while sleeping on their back.&#160; In such cases, avoidance of this position during sleep reduces both snoring and apnea. There are some simple procedures that can be used to reduce sleeping on your back such as attaching a sock to the back of your nightshirt with 1 or 2 tennis balls. Each time you roll onto your back, the discomfort will prompt you to roll onto your side. In time, you will favor sleeping on your side. Ask your doctor if your sleep study demonstrated whether your sleep apnea occurred only on your back.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Periodic Limb Movements (PLMs)
Periodic limb movement disorder affects people only during sleep.&#160; The condition is characterized by behavior ranging from shallow, continual movement of the ankle or toes, to wild and strenuous kicking and flailing of the legs and arms.&#160; Movement of the legs is more typical than movement of the arms in cases of PLMs.&#160; Movements typically occur for 0.5 to 10 seconds, in intervals separated by five to 90 seconds.
These limb movements usually occur in deep stage two sleep, but often cause arousal. Thus, PLMs can cause poor sleep, which may lead to sleep maintenance insomnia and/or excessive daytime sleepiness.
Frequently, the bed partner is aware of these movements as they are hit, kicked or punched during the night.&#160; Additionally, the bottom bed sheet may be thread-bare in one spot sooner than the rest.&#160; This may be caused by your heels rubbing in the same spot frequently at night.&#160; Bedding in disarray is also a well known feature of PLMs&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a great article stating that acting out nightmares/dreams can cause sleep deprivation.  The cause of nightmares is unclear. I pray for great sleep for us and the world.   </p>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Examples of parasomnias:
Nightmare disorder: The individual will experience frightening dreams that are associated with elevated heart rate and breathing, sweating, and arousal. Complete alertness and subsequent recollection of the dreams differentiates nightmares from sleep terrors.
Sleep terror disorder: Sleep terrors typically result in extreme panic, a loud scream during sleep, followed by activities such as hitting objects or moving in and out of the bedroom. Unlike with nightmares, there is rarely any associated dream content. This is a disorder of arousal that primarily occurs during stages 3 and 4 of non-REM sleep.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Eat regular meals and a healthy balanced diet. If you feel hungry in the evening, have a light snack or a glass of milk. Heavy meals close to bedtime can result in discomfort and sleep disturbance. Take Calcium 500 mg and Magnesium 250 mg with a light snack to aid in relaxation (mild muscle relaxant). Always check with your doctor before taking a supplement.
Above all, don&rsquo;t try too hard. If you can&rsquo;t fall asleep, don&rsquo;t lie in bed anxious and frustrated. If it has been 20 to 30 minutes, leave your bedroom to read, watch TV, or do something else to relax, going back to bed only when you feel sleepy again. If you are a clock-watcher, turn the clock around.
Do meditation, yoga or self-hypnosis to help with stress and sleep.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;espiratory Homecare Companies
There are several homecare companies within Calgary that we use for our trials of CPAP.&#160; These companies can also perform the same at-home sleep study (SnoreSat) to diagnose obstructive sleep apnea.&#160; You:
Need to be referred directly to the company by your family physician.
Will be charged for the SnoreSat (approximately $150).&#160; This is the only fee that will be charged.&#160; If you purchase a CPAP machine you would either pay for it yourself or have insurance coverage.&#160; This is no different than if you came to the Sleep Centre.
Results will be interpreted by a sleep specialist but you do not see the specialist.
Family doctor discusses the results with you and gets you on the appropriate therapy (CPAP, dental appliance, urgent referral to the Sleep Centre&#8230;)
The companies are likely able to do this testing within 2 weeks.&#160; Once you follow-up with your family physician they are also able to get you onto CPAP therapy within a couple of weeks.
This is a very quick, safe approach for many patients to be assessed for obstructive sleep apnea.
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Private Sleep Clinics
There are 2 private sleep clinics in Calgary that can diagnose and treat any sleep disorder.&#160; The following table compares both clinics:
Updated April 14, 2008
Canadian Sleep Institute
Centre for Sleep and Human Performance
Referral from family physician required?    Yes Yes
Fees for at-home sleep study    Yes Yes
Fees for polysomnography (in-clinic sleep study)    Yes Yes
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At both clinics the sleep specialist will discuss your results and follow-up your treatment progress.&#160; The main advantage to going to the private clinics is that they have a shorter waitlist than the Sleep Centre.&#160; There may be fees associated with each clinic visit.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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		<title>Discussion Vs Being Right</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/09/03/ros/discussion-vs-being-right/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 12:39:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.hartinstitute.com/inside.php?str_string=Articles~none~none&#038;ID=7">The Hart Institute | Dr. Archibald Hart, Dr. Catherine Hart-Weber | Training, Counseling and Consulting</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;You and your husband will then get stuck in an argument pattern&#8230;you will pursue him to get him to admit he is wrong and you are right, he will instead defend himself to get you to admit you are wrong and he is right. Eventually you will each emotionally disconnect. You get &lsquo;gridlocked&rsquo; over the issue.&#160;

If you keep arguing this way, you won&rsquo;t resolve anything, you will just have a list of &lsquo;hot topics&rsquo; that trigger a very strong and powerful pattern of arguing. And to you he will become an aloof, uninvolved, independent, uncaring roommate. To him you will become a nagging, negative wife he has to put up with. This will not lead to an emotionally connected marriage.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>The last of this article offers excellent suggestions to offer just mutual understanding and expected outcomes.  May it be so for us and the world.  </p>
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		<title>Connecting with God/Love Through Life</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/08/23/ros/connecting-with-godlove-through-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 18:42:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28321">What Do You See? &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8221; God went on to tell His prophet that those figs represented the way that He was going to work in the circumstances of His people.


Do you remember the time that God took Jeremiah to &lsquo;the potter&rsquo;s house&rsquo; and spoke to him through the potter&rsquo;s wheel? (See Jeremiah 18) Then there was the time that the Lord asked Amos what he saw when he was looking at a plumb line. (See Amos 7:8) The Lord went on to show Amos His plans through what he saw. And then there was Zechariah. The Lord showed him a lamp stand and went on to explain how it showed that it is &lsquo;not by might, nor by power, but by My Spirit, says the Lord of hosts&rsquo; (Zechariah 4:2-6).


What do you see as you move through your day? You probably have experienced your Father speaking to you through the Bible many times, but have you heard Him speak to you through the day to day activities of your life? &#8220;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a great article to encourage discerning God&#8217;s voice. I think we just need to be open, perhaps pray to hear Him in all aspects of life.  May it be so for our families, friends, schools, clients, and the world.   </p>
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		<title>Encouragement and Truth</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2009 18:16:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Barnabas Touch - Grace Walk Ministries:::Sh...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28320">The Barnabas Touch &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Sometimes Christians think that we all need to be like the Apostle Paul &#8211; strong, determined, trail-blazers in expanding the kingdom. The church does need folks like that, but don&rsquo;t minimize the powerful effect of the Barnabas type Christians in the church.

You might start churches, like Paul did, or you might touch somebody who turned aside like Barnabas did. Don&rsquo;t fall into the error of thinking that you have to act outside your basic personality and temperament type. God can use you with the personality you have right now, without changing anything about that aspect of your makeup.

Do you relate to Paul&rsquo;s approach to life? Then go for it. But don&rsquo;t be too harsh on those who are more comfortable with the Barnabas approach. The Pauls of the church may reach cities, but the Barnabases will impact lives too, one person at a time.
&#160;&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an an excellent article encouraging acceptance, believing in others and encouraging those who doubt to include them!  I pray we are always open to give 2nd chances to one another/ourselves. May it be so for us our family, friends, clients, schools, and the world.   </p>
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		<title>Affirming the Truth God is For Me</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/08/20/ros/affirming-the-truth-god-is-for-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 16:10:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28250">God Is For Me &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8221; When things are going the way you want, God is for you. When life seems to be falling apart, God is for you. When the Philistines chased David down in Gath, he wrote, &lsquo;This I know, that God is for me&rsquo; (Psalm 56:9). What a time to make a declaration like that!

Many of us have found ourselves in a place similar to David&rsquo;s situation at times. Life is closing in . . . the enemy seems to have us cornered and there appears to be no way out. Pleasant circumstances disappear before our eyes and the world turns dark.

At times like that, we may be tempted to cry out, &lsquo;Why is God against me?&rsquo; Not David. He assured himself with the truth, &lsquo;God is for me.&rsquo; He didn&rsquo;t say, &lsquo;This I feel, that God is for me.&rsquo; There are many times in life that we don&#8217;t feel like God is for us. No, he said, &lsquo;This I know, that God is for me.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a great article esp in times of minor challenges or when God seems silent.  I find grieving also helpful, like Job to experience THE LORD is NOT AGAINST US.  It shows the process of THE FATHER proving His love through His assurance, MAYBE THROUGH SENSING HE IS HOLDING US, until we can go from-affirming, to feeling, to knowing GOD IS FOR ME THIS I KNOW.  MAY IT BE SO FOR US, OUR FAMILIES, FRIENDS, AND THE WORLD!  </p>
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		<title>A Grace-filled Person With Jesus Inside Leads to a Movement</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 18:22:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28249">How To Have a Grace Filled Ministry &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;As is God&iexcl;&macr;s customary way of working, He began to show His answers when I came to the end of myself. I had wanted Him to show me how to motivate the people. He had other plans. He had been wanting to do a deeper work in me which would transform first my own life, then my ministry. This night of despair became the doorway through which God brought me to bring me into an arena of grace like I had never known. In the days to follow the Lord began to reveal truths to me about walking in grace which radically changed the way I understood and did ministry. Before my church became a grace filled ministry, it was necessary for God to cause me to become a grace filled pastor. That began to happen as a couple of truths were deposited deeply into me by the Holy Spirit.

&iexcl;&ouml; Christ is life, not ministry. For 17 years, if you had asked me who I am I would have answered, &iexcl;&deg;I am a preacher.&iexcl;&plusmn; My sense of identity came from my role. In reality, that isn&iexcl;&macr;t who I am but is only what I do. Who I am is a child of God who shares the very life of Jesus Christ. This may sound like a minor distinction, but beginning to see myself first and foremost as a man consumed with Jesus caused ministry to flow from me in a way I had never known. Focusing on ministry produces religious activity, but understanding our union with Christ will cause one to experience an outflow of divine life.

&iexcl;&ouml; Success comes through a Person, not a performance. I believed that success in ministry meant measurable progress. While there is certainly nothing wrong with results which are measurable, I have come to believe that real success comes as we abide in Jesus Christ and allow Him to continually express His life through us. That may or may not always produce results which look impressive. Was John successful on Patmos? Was Paul successful while in the Philippian jail? Was Jesus successful when he hung dying on a cross? God measures success differently from contemporary society.

Grace Filled Churches

As God continued to work the truths of this new grace walk deep into me, I began to see a change in the life of my church. As I changed, they began to change too. It wasn&iexcl;&macr;t unlike what happens in a marriage when God begins to do a deep work in the husband and the wife responds as she sees the Holy Spirit work in him. Church life began to be different in two ways.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an incredibly inspiring article on the way motivation really occurs, esp in churches. I disagree with some of the &#8220;trying&#8221; words, but it clearly says the leader/counsellor is Jesus.  May it be so for us, our families, friends, our practice and the world.   </p>
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		<title>Resting in Faith</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 15:28:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8221; I didn&rsquo;t know that I had already died with Christ and was able to cease from my own works, living instead out of His finished work.

The idea of being called by Christ to a place of rest often contradicts the default setting of contemporary Christian thought. We live in a society where people go on vacation with their cell phones, Palm Pilots and laptop computers. To rest in Christ is a concept which often requires a radical paradigm shift for many people.

To rest in Christ, trusting Him to express His life through us, sounds lazy and negligent after having lived in the wilderness of legalism for such a long time. Many mistakenly think of rest as some sort of passivity, which it is not. Resting in Christ simply means trusting Him to be our Life-Source, depending upon Him to empower our actions with His strength and direction.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a really clear article on what it means to rest in Christ, that he took away our/the sins of the world and let His love show.  May it be so for us/the world.  </p>
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		<title>HANDLING CRISIS/JUST SHOWING UNDERSTANDING</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/08/01/ros/handling-crisisjust-showing-understanding/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 17:45:46 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28218">When Hurricanes Come &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;What are we to do when we believe a hurricane is coming into our lives? We do what Remaila said. We make our preparations. We do so by making sure that everything in life is grounded in the love and sovereignty of the One we profess loves us too much to do us any harm. We give all that we are and all that we have to Him. We recognize that this world is temporary and choose not to allow ourselves to draw our identity from it. We hold a loose grip on everything and everybody, realizing that only God determines what we can hold on to throughout our lives.

Then we entrust ourselves to God. We affirm by faith (not feelings) that He is in control &#8211; that nothing can or will happen in our lives which is beyond the bounds of His authority or the scope of His love for us. We trust Him. It&rsquo;s that simple. We don&rsquo;t always understand. We just trust. We don&rsquo;t always feel like He is loving us through our circumstances. We just trust.

We entrust ourselves to the love of One who promised to never leave or forsake us. We lash ourselves to Romans 8:28 and refuse to let go. The storms may rage. The winds may blow. The waves may surge. But we know that our security is in the love of the One who loved us and gave Himself for us.

Do you see clouds on the horizon of your own life? Don&rsquo;t be afraid. The Bible says that those clouds are &lsquo;the dust of His feet&rsquo; (Nahum 1:3). As storms approach, simply make your preparations and then entrust yourself to God.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>THIS IS A GREAT ARTICLE SO WE DO NOT try to handle crisis/conflicts in our own strength.  It show what that means.  However it still can come across that way if we are not JUST OPEN to his truth/trust.</p>
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		<title>Just Showing Understanding</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 15:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.positivelivingtv.com/relationships/168-conflict-resolution-without-words">Conflict Resolution Without Words &#8211; Positive Living Television</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;If you believe that you or your partner are bad or wrong for your feelings, behavior, or point of view, then you will not be able to let go of judgment. You will move toward compassion when you understand and accept that each of you has very good reasons for your feelings, behavior, and point of view. Try compassionately accepting yourself and your partner and see what happens!&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>Although I do not agree with some of the wording of some points, this article offers some basic great points to facilitate openness.  GOD GAVE US OUR FREEDOM, BY JESUS TAKING AWAY OUR/THE SINS OF THE WORLD TO SEE THINGS OUR WAY.  HE DOESN&#8217;T ENFORCE HIS VIEW ON US, ESPECIALLY IN CONFLICT. WE CAN ASK HIM.  MAY IT BE SO FOR OUR WORLD.  </p>
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		<title>Just Show The Sufficiency of Christ in You</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 14:26:19 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28217">Don&rsquo;t Ask, Appropriate! &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Do you need wisdom? That&rsquo;s Him. Do you need righteousness? That&rsquo;s Him. Holiness? That&rsquo;s Him, too. Do you need sanctification, guidance, strength? It&rsquo;s all Him.

What do you need today? His name is IAM. I AM what? Anything you need. All the fullness of I AM is in Jesus. &lsquo;For it was the Father&#8217;s good pleasure for all the fullness to dwell in Him&rsquo; (Col.1:19). All the fullness of Jesus is in you.

Don&rsquo;t pray for what you already have. Just appropriate the sufficiency of the Christ who is living in you. You don&rsquo;t have to struggle or beg for what you think you need. You already have it. Just let Jesus be Jesus in and through you.

&#8220;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an excellent article on just resting in the grace of understanding/knowing that we have everything of Christ in us now.  May it be so.  </p>
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		<title>75 Ways to Encourage</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2009 17:28:48 +0000</pubDate>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;75 Ways To Say &#8216;Good Job!&#8217;&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>Excellent article!</p>
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		<title>Living Peaceably Together &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &amp; Life of Christ</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/07/18/ros/living-peaceably-together-grace-walk-ministriessharing-the-love-life-of-christ/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2009 15:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28185">Living Peaceably Together &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;When you find it difficult to get along with somebody, there are a few things you might do which could help you navigate through stressful moments.

1. Pray a quick prayer for the person. Ask Jesus to express love to them through you. When we react to the bad mood of others with a negative response, we have allowed them to control us. Why let somebody else cause you to get in a bad mood? You can choose to express love to them and not allow the circumstance to rob you of your own joy.

2. Remember that people who are hard to get along with almost always have conflict going on within themselves. A sales clerk in a store once acted like a jerk to me. My first impulse was to react the same way (I can act like a jerk with the best of them), but instead I paused, looked at the lady and sincerely asked, &lsquo;Are you having a bad day?&rsquo; To my amazement, she began to pour out the details of her personal life that were causing trouble for her. I was so glad that I hadn&rsquo;t acted on my first impulse. Her demeanor instantly softened when I asked that question. (The question I asked could be asked in an accusatory way and add to the problem.) It was one of those &lsquo;God-moments&rsquo; when He allowed me to see the importance of responding in love and not reacting impulsively.

3. Recognize the fact that the problem may be within you and not the other person. There have been times when I&rsquo;ve found myself irritated several times by other people before it finally dawned on me &#8211; &lsquo;They aren&rsquo;t doing anything wrong. I&rsquo;m just in a bad mood today!&rsquo; Maybe the quality in another person that irritates you isn&rsquo;t a bad quality. Maybe that person reminds you of somebody else that you&rsquo;ve had trouble with in your past. Or maybe you&rsquo;re just in a bad mood yourself.

When you find yourself feeling irritable toward somebody else, ask the Holy Spirit this question, &lsquo;Lord, is it me?&rsquo; You might be surprised to find out that the problem isn&rsquo;t with the other person at all.

Paul determined to look beyond human characteristics and see Jesus in every Christian. Mother Teresa was once asked about her work with the lepers &#8211; &lsquo;Do you imagine that it is Jesus ministering to them when you serve them?&rsquo; &lsquo;No,&rsquo; she answered. &lsquo;When I look at them, I see the face of Jesus.&rsquo;&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a good simple article on allowing Jesus/love/His peace respond through us.  The are some parts where it is a little confused.  I don&#8217;t think we are controlled by another, but it can feel like it at times.  Either we are new creations because we are open to the fact that Jesus took the sin of the world away or we are not at this time. May it be so for our family, friends, clients, and the world.    </p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 19:22:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cal</dc:creator>
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Maine this week became the fifth state, and the fourth in New England, to legalize gay marriage, provoking yet another national debate about same-sex unions. The Lessins&#8217; advocacy group, the Maui-based World Polyamory Association, is pushing for the next frontier of less-traditional codified relationships. This community has even come up with a name for what the rest of the world generally would call a committed threesome: the &#8220;triad.&#8221;
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Unlike open marriages and the swinger days of the 1960s and 1970s, these unions are not about sex with multiple outside partners. Nor are they relationships where one person is involved with two others, who are not involved with each other, a la actress Tilda Swinton. That&#8217;s closer to bigamy. Instead, triads—&#8221;triangular triads,&#8221; to use precise polyamorous jargon—demand that all three parties have full relationships, including sexual, with each other. In the Lessins case, that can be varying pairs but, as Sasha, a psychologist, puts it, &#8220;Janet loves it when she gets a double decker.&#8221; In a triad, there would be no doubt in Elizabeth Edwards’ mind whether her husband fathered a baby out of wedlock; she likely would have participated in it.</blockquote>

<p>But, But, But &#8212; they PROMISED!!! They were so sure it wouldn&#8217;t be a slippery slope&#8230; <img src='http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Focus on Jesus Character Not on Your Behavior</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Dec 2008 17:49:31 +0000</pubDate>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;The new Christian who has all along been glorifying Christ through his behavior without even thinking about his behavior now stops focusing on Christ and starts focusing on his behavior. The face of Jesus fades into the background and a list of religious rules emerge as the focal point of the new Christian&rsquo;s life,&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a good brief article on starting in faith as you began.  Our continued victory can only be received by faith not by following rules.  In marital conflict when feeling powerless/blamed/afraid/shame and needing control. Wait, relax, vent to Jesus, and focus on His control/power/blamelessness/promise to make a way through grace, in us believers.  Give truth, after receiving His perspective when it can be heard/let it surface,   in us believers.    </p>
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		<title>Reflections on Releasing Control</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.GraceWalk.org/web/pageid/67566/pages.asp">GV Jan 2008</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Control freaks &#8211; that&rsquo;s what we all are when we try to be in charge of our own lives. God never intended for us to be in control. Controlling things is His role, not ours. &lsquo;My life is out of control!&rsquo; people have tearfully said to me at times in the counseling office. What they really meant was &lsquo;My life is out of my control and I don&rsquo;t like it!&rsquo;
&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160; Imagine a baby holding a pair of new shoes in his hands. He is playing with them and happy they belong to him. His parent reaches down to take the shoes and put them on the child&rsquo;s feet. All the child sees is that his shoes are being taken out of his hands. He doesn&rsquo;t like it. He wants to control them and keep them in his hands, but he will never walk in them that way.
&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160; The parent takes the shoes from the hand of the child and the baby begins to cry. He is overwhelmed with anger, confusion and regret that his shoes are being taken from him. He screams. He kicks in protest. He is losing control of the thing he loves and wants to hold. He doesn&rsquo;t understand what his parent is doing. But the parent understands and does what is necessary to enable the child to walk &#8211; whether the child likes it or even understands.
&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160; The goal is to enable the child to enjoy the shoes to the fullest by walking in them. The parent knows that if the shoes are used for their designed purpose, the child will truly benefit and not simply be amused by them.
&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160; Only a baby thinks the highest pleasure is to hold them in his hands. He doesn&rsquo;t see the whole picture. So the parent overrules the baby&rsquo;s wishes and does what is needful. Eventually the child will understand. When he does, he is thrilled, and more important than that, he walks.
Do you want to walk? What are you holding onto that you need to release? Let it go. God knows what He is doing.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an excellent article for parenting and dealing with the crisies of life.  I pray for this rest and openness to genuinely let go of our way after working through the emotions individually/together with others.      </p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 May 2008 09:35:32 +0000</pubDate>
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SAN ANGELO, Tex. &#8211; A Texas appeals court said Thursday that the state had no right to take more than 400 children from a polygamist sects ranch, a ruling that could unravel one of the biggest child-custody cases in U.S. history.
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The Third Court of Appeals in Austin ruled that the state offered &#8220;legally and factually insufficient&#8221; grounds for the &#8220;extreme&#8221; measure of removing all children from the ranch, from babies to teenagers.
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The state never provided evidence that the children were in any immediate danger, the only grounds in Texas law for taking children from their parents without court approval, the appeals court said.
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It also failed to show evidence that more than five of the teenage girls were being sexually abused, and never alleged any sexual or physical abuse against the other children, the court said.
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It was not immediately clear whether the children scattered across foster facilities statewide might soon be reunited with parents. The ruling gave Texas District Judge Barbara Walther 10 days to vacate her custody order, and the state could appeal.
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FLDS spokesman Rod Parker said sect members feel validated, having argued from the beginning that they were being persecuted for their beliefs.</blockquote>

<p>The legal geniuses have spoken. Contrary to this foundation of American marital law:</p>

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[W]e think it may safely be said there never has been a time in any State of the Union when polygamy has not been an offence against society, cognizable by the civil courts and punishable with more or less severity. In the face of all this evidence, it is impossible to believe that the constitutional guaranty of religious freedom was intended to prohibit legislation in respect to this most important feature of social life. Marriage, while from its very nature a sacred obligation, is nevertheless, in most civilized nations, a civil contract, and usually regulated by law. Upon it society may be said to be built, and out of its fruits spring social relations and social obligations and duties with which government is necessarily required to deal. In fact, according as monogamous or polygamous marriages are allowed, do we find the principles on which the government of the people, to a greater or less extent, rests&#8230;
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[P]olygamy leads to the patriarchal principle, and which, when applied to large communities, fetters the people in stationary despotism, while that principle cannot long exist in connection with monogamy&#8230;. An exceptional colony of polygamists under an exceptional leadership may sometimes exist for a time without appearing to disturb the social condition of the people who surround it; but there cannot be a doubt that, unless restricted by some form of constitution, it is within the legitimate scope of the power of every civil government to determine whether polygamy or monogamy shall be the law of social life under its dominion.
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&#8230;[T]he only question which remains is whether those who make polygamy a part of their religion are excepted from the operation of the statute. If they are, then those who do not make polygamy a part of their religious belief may be found guilty and punished, while those who do, must be acquitted and go free. This would be introducing a new element into criminal law. Laws are made for the government of actions, and while they cannot interfere with mere religious belief and opinions, they may with practices. Suppose one believed that human sacrifices were a necessary part of religious worship; would it be seriously contended that the civil government under which he lived could not interfere to prevent a sacrifice? Or if a wife religiously believed it was her duty to burn herself upon the funeral pile of her dead husband; would it be beyond the power of the civil government to prevent her carrying her belief into practice?
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So here, as a law of the organization of society under the exclusive dominion of the United States, it is provided that plural marriages shall not be allowed. Can a man excuse his practices to the contrary because of his religious belief? To permit this would be to make the professed doctrines of religious belief superior to the law of the land, and, in effect, to permit every citizen to become a law unto himself. Government could exist only in name under such circumstances.
<br /><br />
- Reynolds v. United States, 98 U.S. 145, 165-67 (1878).</blockquote>

<p>&#8230;The court of Texas now feels that their belief system does not, in fact, influence those around them or damage children and that it has no interest in offering protection to the rest of society&#8230;</p><p></p>

<p>It ignored the reality that they COULD prove that 5 girls were being sexually abused, that this abuse was not some random uncle sneaking in under the cover of night but, rather, a socially accepted act carried out under the premeditated sham of an illegal marriage unto which the young girl had to have been forced &#8212; seeing as she had no legal ability to consent to such. This is something that the entire community participated in through participation in the ceremonies.</p><p></p>

<p>It also ignored the reality that, while these marriages were not declared as such, they did, in fact exist. (It&#8217;s really only through an adherence to a legal sham of state sanctioned marriage that they could be ignored in first place&#8230;) Thus they were permitted to ignore the actual illegality of the actions in question.</p><p></p>

<p>The most striking irony, though, is how they are talking now &#8212; having been schooled by an army of lawyers: &#8220;We&#8217;re being persecuted for our beliefs.&#8221; Really? The Texas authorities knew the compound was there for decades &#8212; and did nothing. The seizure of children was done because the violation of children reported and discovered was a socially accepted set of actions which then left the other children there defenseless. </p><p></p>

<p>They admit that their beliefs advocate something contrary to American law (Though they can lie like troopers on Larry King about having no husbands&#8230;) and there is solid proof that some children were illegally married to and sexually used by those older men, yet, the connection between belief and support of action seems to have no legal credibility.</p><p></p>

<p>It&#8217;s a strange bending of really: &#8220;You may believe you are married but we refuse to accept that those marriages could exist. If they can not exist, then no laws have been broken and no one could be harmed by what we just decided does not exist. All that is present here is a group of people believing in a fiction and beliefs can&#8217;t harm anyone either (<strong>COUGH</strong> 911 <strong>COUGH</strong>) so they should get their children back to continue teaching them to engage in what we have decided doesn&#8217;t exist.&#8221;</p><p></p>

<p>Only a lawyer could make that one make sense&#8230;</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jan 2008 12:18:08 +0000</pubDate>
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<blockquote>
&#8220;I was dumfounded. I thought I was dreaming,&#8221; the husband told the newspaper Wednesday.
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The couple, married for 14 years, are now divorcing, the newspaper reported.</blockquote>

<p>Ok, so I have to post this &#8212; if only to ask the odd question&#8230;</p><p></p>

<p>It&#8217;s been known for 50 years that where there is one broken person in a marriage, there is always another &#8212; just in a very different (And usually enabling/codependent/co-addict) sort of way. Even in light of that psychology, this still is a strange sort of hyper-congruent validation of the idea if there ever was one&#8230;</p><p></p>

<p>I&#8217;ve just gotta ask though: Is she divorcing him because he visits hookers &#8212; or is he divorcing her because she is one??? At least on the surface, it would seem that in the middle of this mess of a marriage, the couple has finally found SOMETHING they can agree upon. Their sex life had to of really sucked in terms of intimacy anyway &#8212; so it&#8217;s not like they each had high expectations there&#8230; She apparently was successful at her profession &#8212; and he was obviously intent on purchasing it so the variety of acts likely was not at issue&#8230;. Why are they divorcing such &#8216;perfection&#8217; in first place?</p><p></p>

<p>Or, just maybe we have proof positive of what I&#8217;ve been saying for the last decade &#8212; it&#8217;s really NOT ABOUT THE SEX!!! Never has this constant of marriages the world over been more clearly demonstrated: neither can point at the other and say, &#8220;I&#8217;m ok and you are broken so I need to leave.&#8221; In this case, there are two perfectly matched human hearts &#8212; hearts totally distrustful of love &#8212; now divorcing because their previous distrust driven distance has now been multiplied through absolutely identical offenses. </p><p></p>

<p>Divorcing &#8212; because they are still too afraid to bring their hearts to the table and be loved &#8212; because they are still equally afraid of rejection &#8212; from an absolute equal &#8212; who is just as desperate for love. </p>
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<p><blockquote>&#8220;Does he want you to know that you can hear from God for yourself, and that no one else can hear from Him better than you &#8230; or does he tell you that God speaks to him on your behalf?&#160; Does he create a tension between dependence upon God vs. dependence upon himself?<br />&#160;<br />You know what I think?&#160; I think you ask me because you already know, but are afraid you might be hearing it wrong.&#160; That&#8217;s what I think.&#160; <img src='http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> &#160; Connie, you have the life of Christ within you.&#160; I wrote what I did as a witness to what you already know, but may not have been able to put words to.&#160; You hear from God very well and I hope to encourage you to trust what He speaks to your heart!!<br />&#160;<br />Please feel free to write back soon, for I hope to hear from you, and to know that your confidence in HIS working within you is strengthened.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a very encouraging brief article on the definition of spiritual abuse/hurt and it&#8217;s root origin. When people grow up feeling unimportant through lack of attention, affection, validation they may set themselves up as those who preach themselves.  This is in contrast to Christ/His Finished Work. When others demand, it often can be because they are hiding the fact they should not be trusted.  I pray all we touch know that their confidence in God&#8217;s working in them is strengthened.     </p>
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U.S. researchers, in a study believed to be the first to link marriage breakdown with its environmental impact, have concluded divorce definitely isn&#8217;t green.
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They say it leads to &#8220;resource-inefficient lifestyles&#8221; that dramatically increase the consumption of water and electricity, and demands for housing.
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Although it isn&#8217;t surprising that the study found separated couples and their children consume more than they would had their families remained intact, the amount of damage they cause to the environment hasn&#8217;t been quantified in such detail before.</blockquote>

<p>For once, absurdest environmentalism and common sense line up &#8212; even the Greens want you to stay married now. Apparently if the good of the children, the high likelihood that round two will just repeat round one anyway, increased rates of depression and suicide and a host of stress related illnesses arn&#8217;t good enough, you can always just do it for the planet&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Unbelievers/Religion Vs Believers Who Love God, Jesus and Others</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Oct 2007 15:20:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q&#38;A: Did Paul write this letter to unbelievers, too?:&#8220;But he made no mistake about those who were born of the Spirit and had the mind of Christ.  In 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, where Paul could have slammed the believers for their sinning (because they were indeed manifesting many of the things he mentioned) he instead says this incredible thing, &#8221;And such WERE some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, and in the Spirit of our God.&#8220;...  He brought up examples of their day-to-day existence to tie it in with the mindset of the world so that they would be shaken from their stupor!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://theshovel.net/questions/dig.asp?TID=36&amp;PN=1">Q&#38;A: Did Paul write this letter to unbelievers, too?</a>:</p>

<p><blockquote>&#8220;But he made no mistake about those who were born of the Spirit and had the mind of Christ. In 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, where Paul could have slammed the believers for their sinning (because they were indeed manifesting many of the things he mentioned) he instead says this incredible thing, &#8221;And such WERE some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, and in the Spirit of our God.&#8220; Remember what Paul had said near the beginning of the letter? &#8221;For I determined to know NOTHING AMONG YOU EXCEPT CHRIST AND HIM CRUCIFIED.&#8220; (1 Cor 2:2). He brought up examples of their day-to-day existence to tie it in with the mindset of the world so that they would be shaken from their stupor! These believers were having an identity crisis!! (Our brother) is correct in saying that, &#8221;ALL Believers by birthright, love the Lord&#8220;.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an incredible article on not letting the wisdom of the world/religion DULL THE REALITY OF THE NEW MIRACULOUS WORK OF JESUS/LOVE IN THEM FOR BELIEVERS .  WE ARE JUST TO FOCUS ON HIM AND NOT SIN. This is my prayer. Amen.  </p>
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		<title>Hypocrites</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 17:07:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q&#38;A: How do I know my questions aren&#8217;t from having &#8220;itchy ears&#8221;?:&#8220; Most who hang with me STILL have a lot of personal differences, but we have discovered that those things are not the reason why we are one in Christ and so it is ok to not have to resolve everything....  You got beat up by man's religion and finally realized that you couldn't do or be what they preached.  I'll bet you also realized that those who were doing the preaching weren't meeting up to the standards they preached!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://theshovel.net/questions/dig.asp?TID=35&amp;PN=1">Q&#38;A: How do I know my questions aren&#8217;t from having &#8220;itchy ears&#8221;?</a>:</p>

<p><blockquote>&#8220; Most who hang with me STILL have a lot of personal differences, but we have discovered that those things are not the reason why we are one in Christ and so it is ok to not have to resolve everything. Heck, most of it just kinda fades away in view of the life that we have our eyes open to. Those who turn away do so because of a desire for something OTHER THAN CHRIST. It is so sad to see this happen, but it happens often. Your desires are obvious. You got beat up by man&#8217;s religion and finally realized that you couldn&#8217;t do or be what they preached. I&#8217;ll bet you also realized that those who were doing the preaching weren&#8217;t meeting up to the standards they preached! So, if it doesn&#8217;t work for the preacher why would you think it&#8217;ll work for you? This is how the law operates. It&#8217;ll tear you up and spit you out and you&#8217;ll go back for more until you finally break. Then the good news sounds FANTASTIC! As it should. <img src='http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  <br /><br />        &#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an encouraging article on only focusing on Jesus and His sufficiency.  It is not about being stimulated intellectually enough or being recognized for doing good enough, especially in churches. This is true love and acceptance.  It enables us to stay in relationships even though we are different.</p>
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