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		<title>Just the facts??? Um ya, about that&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Apr 2010 07:22:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cal</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Finally, a little reason&#8230;

For years, the aggressive presentation of the American Psyc. Asso. has been that homosexuality is innate, that any attempt at reparative therapy amounted to abuse and that therapists who offer such should be banned. They further promoted the idea (and aggressively attempted the enforcement of such) that schools must affirm and even [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Finally, a little reason&#8230;</p><p></p>

<p>For years, the aggressive presentation of the American Psyc. Asso. has been that homosexuality is innate, that any attempt at reparative therapy amounted to abuse and that therapists who offer such should be banned. They further promoted the idea (and aggressively attempted the enforcement of such) that schools must affirm and even market homosexuality/bisexuality/lesbianism/transsexualism as a great idea for youth or risk being seen as and create children who are bigoted.</p><p></p>

<p>It would be nice if they had founded all of this politicking on anything more then rumor and thin air &#8212; but, they didn&#8217;t &#8212; the science just isn&#8217;t on their side. </p><p></p>

<p>Finally, the push back is coming &#8212; and coming VERY hard &#8212; from none other then the American College of Pediatricians in the <a href="http://factsaboutyouth.com/wp-content/uploads/Superintendent-LetterC_3.311.pdf ">form of a letter</a> stating the obvious:</p>

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(1) individuals with unwanted same sex attraction often can be successfully treated;
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(2) there is no undue risk to patients from embarking on such therapy and
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(3), as a group, homosexuals experience significantly higher levels of mental and physical health problems compared to heterosexuals. Among adolescents who claim a “gay” identity, the health risks include higher rates of sexually transmitted infections, alcoholism, substance abuse, anxiety, depression and suicide. Encouragingly, the longer students delay self-labeling as “gay,” the less likely they are to experience these health risks. In fact, for each year an adolescent delays, the risk of
suicide alone decreases by 20%.
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In light of these facts, it is clear that when well-intentioned but misinformed school personnel encourage students to “come out as gay” and be “affirmed,”  there is a serious risk of erroneously labeling students (who may merely be experiencing transient sexual confusion and/or engaging in sexual experimentation). Premature labeling may then lead some adolescents into harmful homosexual behaviors that they otherwise would not pursue.
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Optimal health and respect for all students will only be achieved by first respecting the rights of students and parents to
accurate information and to self-determination. It is the school’s legitimate role to provide a safe environment for
respectful self-expression for all students. It is not the school’s role to diagnose and attempt to treat any student’s medical
condition, and certainly not a school’s role to “affirm” a student’s perceived personal sexual orientation.</blockquote>

<p>Here&#8217;s a couple more sources of real information from <a href="http://www.narth.com/docs/nonFactSSAEducDale.pdf">NARTH</a> and <a href="http://www.lc.org/media/9980/attachments/the%20facts%20about%20so%20and%20youth_response.pdf">Liberty Counsel</a>.</p><p></p>

<p>Don&#8217;t expect the <a href="http://www.apa.org/pi/lgbt/resources/just-the-facts.pdf">politburo at the APA</a> to agree though&#8230; </p>
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		<title>THE WAY GOD REVEALS HEALING BY HIS LIFE/LOVE</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2010/03/07/ros/the-way-god-reveals-healing-by-his-lifelove/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 14:24:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Session Notes: 

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The God Who Speaks &#8211; July 7, 2006
I was gearing up for soul-restoration, not issues-exploration. But Cam is usually right, so I kept my eyes open and asked the Lord for a strategy. Sure enough, not long into my &#8220;breather&#8221;, up came some &#8220;stuff&#8221; that wants to bully me towards isolation. How do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/">Session Notes</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>The God Who Speaks &#8211; July 7, 2006
I was gearing up for soul-restoration, not issues-exploration. But Cam is usually right, so I kept my eyes open and asked the Lord for a strategy. Sure enough, not long into my &#8220;breather&#8221;, up came some &#8220;stuff&#8221; that wants to bully me towards isolation. How do you rest when old insecurities, temptations, or &#8220;demons&#8221; rise up when you finally still your heart? Or am I the only one who didn&#8217;t automatically get all his shortcomings washed away at baptism? If not, read on:</p>

<p>The Lord showed me that during a time of rest, first of all, I don&#8217;t need to go digging for my issues. They will surface on their own, thankyou very much.</p>

<p>Second, when they surface, I don&#8217;t need to work at fixing things. Rather, I can sit WITH them in HIS PRESENCE, allowing them to RIPEN. That way, instead of running around the tree of my life picking off old &#8220;bad&#8221; fruit, I can sit at the tree of HIS LIFE /the Cross) and let the fruit simply rot and fall off. I found that this took some patience and a little courage. But to extend the tree analogy, it was a reminder that Christ is the Pruner&#8230; not me. And if you give Him a chance, He is faithful to do it. I hardly had to help him; my role was to simply ripen in His presence. SOOO restful&#8230; in fact, the biggest breakthrough came just this morning through a one-minute dream. It was Jesus, teaching me &#8220;the unforced rhythms of grace&#8221; (Matt. 11:28 MSG).</p>

<p>And third, it dawned on me, &#8220;Why don&#8217;t I ALWAYS take this approach?&#8221; Perhaps there is a time to take the initiative and really pursue one&#8217;s healing ruthlessly and thoroughly&#8230; but I&#8217;ll ask Jesus about that later. After my rest. In the mean time, can I challenge you to ask the Lord if there&#8217;s anything &#8220;in your face&#8221; that He&#8217;d like to have ripen in His presence.</p>

<p>Brad Jersak</p>

<p>This is an inspiring article!!!  I pray we can allow God to reveal His healing love to us, our families, friends, clients, churches, school, and world.</p>
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		<title>Braces for Kids</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/10/21/ros/braces-for-kids/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 14:41:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[CBC News &#8211; Consumer Life &#8211; Giving kids braces earlier not always better: 

&#8220;However, for children with Class II malocclusion, commonly referred to as an overbite or buck teeth, there is no advantage to starting early, according to Dr. William Proffit, a professor at the University of North Carolina&#8217;s School of Dentistry in Chapel Hill.&#8221;


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.cbc.ca/consumer/story/2009/10/20/consumer-brace-young-children.html">CBC News &#8211; Consumer Life &#8211; Giving kids braces earlier not always better</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;However, for children with Class II malocclusion, commonly referred to as an overbite or buck teeth, there is no advantage to starting early, according to Dr. William Proffit, a professor at the University of North Carolina&#8217;s School of Dentistry in Chapel Hill.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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		<title>IT IS OUR PROBLEMS THAT GOD REVEALS HE&#8217;S IN CONTROL</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 16:29:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Being Broken From The Need To Control &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;Relax, and enjoy your journey. Rest in your Father&#8217;s sovereignty. Your life is an adventure, planned and performed by Him. We grow weary when we try to do what He alone can do. It is through our trials [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28362">Being Broken From The Need To Control &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Relax, and enjoy your journey. Rest in your Father&rsquo;s sovereignty. Your life is an adventure, planned and performed by Him. We grow weary when we try to do what He alone can do. It is through our trials that He will lift our controlling need to be in charge. We must see that we are not in charge, but God alone determines and controls the unfolding of our destiny. Control is an arena for which we are not suited. Our Father, on the other hand, is perfectly suited for that role.

So let go. Lay down your life for His sake and you will find it. Cling to your own life and you will lose it. Zoe (an authentic, abundant life) is yours. Don&rsquo;t forfeit it for bios (biological life, mundane existence). If that is your deep desire, join in heartfelt agreement with this prayer:

Father, move in me and through me to lay down my agenda and my control and trust You alone. Thank you that You will complete the work you have begun in me. I yield my circumstances to You and ask You to teach me to trust You more through all of it. Bring me to maturity, according to Your plan.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL ARTICLES!!!  I PRAY WWHEN WE, OUR FAMILIES, FRIENDS, CLIENTS, SCHOOLS, AND WORLD FEEL BROKEN HEARTED THAT WE REST to feel content in all circumstances according to HIS PLAN. </p>
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		<title>Promises In Spite of Your Past</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/10/19/ros/promises-in-spite-of-your-past/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 15:32:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Overcoming A Bad Family Background &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;Don&#8217;t be held captive by your past. It isn&#8217;t necessary to pretend your heritage is something other than what it really was, but you don&#8217;t have to be held back by it. When Jesus Christ gave you His life, His [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28360">Overcoming A Bad Family Background &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Don&rsquo;t be held captive by your past. It isn&rsquo;t necessary to pretend your heritage is something other than what it really was, but you don&rsquo;t have to be held back by it. When Jesus Christ gave you His life, His past became your past. You received a new heritage. The new you has been in Him since the foundation of the world. (See Ephesians 1:4) You aren&rsquo;t who you used to be. (See 2 Corinthians 5:17) You aren&rsquo;t the sum of your family&rsquo;s past. You are who God made you to be &#8211; a divine work of art (see Ephesians 2:10), endowed with supernatural potential (see Philippians 4:13).

In Christ, your future is as bright as the promises of God! Don&rsquo;t allow yourself to be trapped by lies which suggest that you&rsquo;ll never make it in life. You will make it because you have been delivered from your background. Your future hinges on the loving faithfulness of God and He can be trusted.

The Psalmist wrote: &lsquo;Your goodness is so great! You have stored up blessings for those who honor you. You have done so much for those who come to you for protection, blessing them before the watching world!&rsquo; (Psalm 31:19)

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<p></p><p>This is an inspiring article! I pray this article for us, our families, friends, schools, clients, and world.</p>
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		<title>Coolest Kid Birthday Party Printable Birthday Invitations</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 15:17:24 +0000</pubDate>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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		<title>Only Jesus Not Us</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 16:04:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s All Him &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;Have you ever noticed our tendency to push ourselves into the starring role of the stories told in the Bible? For instance, consider the story of &#8216;the good Samaritan.&#8217; Most sermons I&#8217;ve ever heard about that text makes the main application be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28357">It&#8217;s All Him &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Have you ever noticed our tendency to push ourselves into the starring role of the stories told in the Bible? For instance, consider the story of &lsquo;the good Samaritan.&rsquo; Most sermons I&rsquo;ve ever heard about that text makes the main application be that &lsquo;we shouldn&rsquo;t be like the lawyer or the priest who passed by the wounded man without helping him. We should be like the good Samaritan.&rsquo;

In reality, that&rsquo;s not the meaning of the story. It&rsquo;s not a moral lesson that the Bible is trying to teach us here. Through that story, Jesus was teaching us about Himself. The main lesson isn&rsquo;t that we are to help the pitiful, helpless man. It&rsquo;s that we are the pitiful, helpless man. Jesus is the Good Samaritan who found us after legalism and devout religion didn&rsquo;t lift a finger to help us.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>I pray the Spirit teaches us that it is all about Jesus as Saviour and not us.  </p>
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		<title>Booster Seats</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 16:05:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[CBC News &#8211; Consumer Life &#8211; Few booster seats keep child secure: 

&#8220;Booster seats

Seat belts are designed with a 165-pound man in mind.

With kids, the lap belt tends to ride up on the abdomen, and the shoulder belt often cuts across the face or neck. Children can be injured by seat belts that do not [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.cbc.ca/consumer/story/2009/10/06/booster-seats-child.html">CBC News &#8211; Consumer Life &#8211; Few booster seats keep child secure</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Booster seats

Seat belts are designed with a 165-pound man in mind.

With kids, the lap belt tends to ride up on the abdomen, and the shoulder belt often cuts across the face or neck. Children can be injured by seat belts that do not fit them correctly as well as by belts that are not worn correctly.

Booster seats were designed to correct this problem for most children between the ages of four and eight (or weighing up to 36 kilograms, or 80 pounds). They raise children to a height at which lap and shoulder belts can be worn correctly.

The booster seat is held in place by the seatbelt. It is not tethered to the car like a child car seat.

Children using seat belts instead of booster seats are 3.5 times more likely to suffer significant injury and four times more likely to suffer head injury.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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		<title>Life Decisions</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 15:44:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The People Pleasers &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;God gives you the desires of your heart. He places them there, but if you don&#8217;t know who you are you may spend your whole life trying to fulfill other people&#8217;s plan for your life. Many a frustrated Christian has struggled with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28348">The People Pleasers &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;God gives you the desires of your heart. He places them there, but if you don&rsquo;t know who you are you may spend your whole life trying to fulfill other people&rsquo;s plan for your life. Many a frustrated Christian has struggled with finding fulfillment in life because they&rsquo;re trying to be something and do something they&rsquo;ve never been called by God to do.

The meaning of grace, in part, is &lsquo;divine enablement.&rsquo; By His grace, God enables you to be all that He has called you to be and do all that He has called you to do. But remember this: His grace doesn&rsquo;t empower you to be and do what somebody else has called you to do.

Who God has made you to be is wonderful, so you must resolve to be that person. Any effort to be somebody else is an affront to God because it suggests that you (or others) better know who you&rsquo;re supposed to be and what you&rsquo;re supposed to be doing. Don&rsquo;t live for other people. It will wear you out.

Instead, live from the identity in Christ that your Father has given you. Then you will be free to be and do all that you were designed for. The Apostle Paul once said, &lsquo;I&rsquo;m not trying to be a people-pleaser!&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a good article except the pleasing God section and some law.  I pray we do not hamper the SPIRIT IN OTHERS BY OUR EXPECTATIONS FOR THEM.  </p>
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		<title>Organization</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 05:20:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Grace For God&#8217;s Change/Standards</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/10/05/ros/grace-for-gods-changestandards/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 14:29:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Forgiving Ourselves &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;&#8216;I know that God has forgiven me, but I just can&#8217;t forgive myself,&#8217; someone recently said to me after describing a recent period of time in his life when he had made the choice to repeatedly commit the same sin again and again. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28346">Forgiving Ourselves &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;&lsquo;I know that God has forgiven me, but I just can&rsquo;t forgive myself,&rsquo; someone recently said to me after describing a recent period of time in his life when he had made the choice to repeatedly commit the same sin again and again. As Christians always do, he had finally reached the place where he couldn&rsquo;t stand the thought of living like that for the rest of this life. So he cried out to his Deliverer and the cycle of sin was broken.
The foolish behavior was now a thing of the past, but he couldn&rsquo;t disconnect from it mentally and emotionally. A sense of guilt and self-condemnation was draining him of his energy, enthusiasm and joy. He wasn&rsquo;t still committing the sin, but was as miserable as he had been when he was.

&lsquo;So you do believe that God has forgiven you?&rsquo; I asked.

&lsquo;Yes,&rsquo; he answered, &lsquo;but I can&rsquo;t forgive myself for what I&rsquo;ve done. I&rsquo;ve been a Christian long enough to know better.&rsquo;

After we had talked awhile and nothing I said seemed to be sinking in, I finally asked him, &lsquo;Do you think you&rsquo;re better than God?&rsquo;

&lsquo;What do you mean?&rsquo; he asked.

&lsquo;I mean that if the blood of Christ is sufficient for God to look at you and say, &lsquo;Forgiven,&rsquo; what will it take for you to forgive yourself? If the death of Jesus Christ on the cross for this sin you committed isn&rsquo;t enough for you, what will it take? You&rsquo;ve set a standard for yourself that is obviously higher than the one God has set.&rsquo;&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a great encouragement to allow children the grace for God to change them!  There is no need for guilt/drivenness.  May it be so for the world.</p>
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		<title>Canadian Home Education Resources &#8211; Good Stuff for Home School Families</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 23:06:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Canadian Home Education Resources &#8211; Good Stuff for Home School Families: 

&#8220;CHER CATALOGUE
    Alpha Omega Publications
    Anthologies &#038; Treasuries
    Art
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    Character Development
    Computers
    Contest
    Critical Thinking
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.canadianhomeeducation.com/index.asp">Canadian Home Education Resources &#8211; Good Stuff for Home School Families</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;CHER CATALOGUE
    Alpha Omega Publications
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		<title>Home School Resources in Calgary &#8211; Stores</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/10/02/ros/home-school-resources-in-calgary-stores/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 23:05:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Home School Resources in Calgary &#8211; Stores: 

&#8220;Canadian Home Education Resources
Specializing in home schooling materials.
108 &#8211; 1289 Highfield Cr SE, Calgary, AB T2G 5M2
Phone: (403) 243-4443 Fax: (403) 243-9727
http://www.canadianhomeeducation.com&#8221;


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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Canadian Home Education Resources
Specializing in home schooling materials.
108 &#8211; 1289 Highfield Cr SE, Calgary, AB T2G 5M2
Phone: (403) 243-4443 Fax: (403) 243-9727
http://www.canadianhomeeducation.com&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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		<title>Canadian Home Education Resources &#8211; Critical Thinking</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 23:04:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Canadian Home Education Resources &#8211; Critical Thinking: 

&#8220;Problem Solving, Reasoning, Logic, and Arguments

Develops logical thinking for superior reading comprehension and test success.

Description &#038; Features

Critical Thinking teaches your child to think logically, present well-developed arguments, and see through unsupported arguments. Book One helps students develop the fundamentals of logic, argumentation, and critical reading.

Easy-to-understand explanations of concepts [...]]]></description>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Problem Solving, Reasoning, Logic, and Arguments

Develops logical thinking for superior reading comprehension and test success.

Description &#038; Features

Critical Thinking teaches your child to think logically, present well-developed arguments, and see through unsupported arguments. Book One helps students develop the fundamentals of logic, argumentation, and critical reading.

Easy-to-understand explanations of concepts are followed by examples and real-life, often humorous, discussion problems. Students learn to identify valid and invalid claims and arguments, sufficient and insufficient evidence, fact and opinion, &#8230;

List Price:&#160;$27.95&#160;per&#160;EACH
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Need More Info? Click here for added information such as Author, Ages, Sample Pages, Links, etc&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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		<title>J.C&#8217;s Spirit Teaching Us to Be Open Again</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 16:04:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Canned Goods and Closed Hearts &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;My parent&#8217;s generation had known what is was like to be without food. Consequently, somewhere deep inside them a voice must have said, &#8216;I will never be caught without enough food to eat again.&#8217; Thus, the massive inventory of canned [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28342">Canned Goods and Closed Hearts &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;My parent&rsquo;s generation had known what is was like to be without food. Consequently, somewhere deep inside them a voice must have said, &lsquo;I will never be caught without enough food to eat again.&rsquo; Thus, the massive inventory of canned goods. Come what may in life, there would be food in the cabinets.

I think that&rsquo;s how many of us face most areas of our lives. We have faced circumstances at times that created a sense of loss or need within us. Because the situation was painful, somewhere deep inside us, we said, &lsquo;This won&rsquo;t ever happen to me again.&rsquo; So we hoarded what we have and shut the cabinet door. We went into the self-protection mode.

Some were hurt by a friend and have now closed the door on vulnerability. They&rsquo;ll never trust another person as a true friend. Others have had a marriage go sour. Today, they won&rsquo;t completely open up to their mate because of fear. If they give everything, they risk losing everything again. Some were burned at church. Now, they have lumped all churches in the same hypocritical pile and won&rsquo;t become an integral part of a church fellowship.

The hurts differ, but the response is common. Shut the door of my heart and don&rsquo;t risk losing what I have or being hurt. After all, if it happened once, . . .

What &lsquo;great depression&rsquo; have you experienced in life? What commodity did you feel you had taken from you when you needed it most? Was it trust? Love? Friendship? What have you lost?

As a result have you tried to stuff those things deep inside you that you don&rsquo;t want to ever lose again? Are you fearful to take them out? Have you resolved that you&rsquo;ll never find yourself in that kind of situation again?&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a great article which describes what happens when a person who has been hurt in turn hurts another.  I pray J.C&#8217;s Spirit will teach the us, our families, friends, clients, schools, and world to be vlulnerable again in life. God show us other&#8217;s hearts/hurts so we will not feel a hint of judgement. </p>
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		<title>Beautiful Promises of the Jesus&#8217; Spirit in Us</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 17:21:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Heavenly Father, I Am Your Child &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;Every blessing in Christ Jesus is already mine. (See Ephesians 1:3) By faith, I will enter in to the grace-filled walk that you have prepared for me. (See Romans 5:2) I am everything you say I am. (See1 Corinthians [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28341">Heavenly Father, I Am Your Child &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Every blessing in Christ Jesus is already mine. (See Ephesians 1:3) By faith, I will enter in to the grace-filled walk that you have prepared for me. (See Romans 5:2) I am everything you say I am. (See1 Corinthians 15:10) I can do everything you have called me to do. (See Philippians 4:13) I can have all that you have called me to have. (See Psalm 84:11)

My days will only grow brighter.(See Proverbs 4:18) Your favor is upon me and will never leave me.(See Lamentations 3:22-23) Nothing that comes my way can harm me. (See Isaiah 54:17) You orchestrate my circumstances so that everything works out for my good. (See Romans 8:28)&#160; Without wavering, I will hold tightly to the hope I say I have, because You can be trusted to keep your Promise. (See Hebrews 3:23)&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is beautiful!  I pray Jesus&#8217; Spirit teaches/reminds/lives these promises through us, our families, friends, schools, clients, and world every moment!</p>
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		<title>Promises of the Spirit</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/09/30/ros/promises-of-the-spirit/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 16:01:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A Love Letter From Your Father &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8221; I will do something new. Do you want to see it? I will make a way when there is no way. (43:18-19) I will go before you and make the rough places smooth. I will shatter the barriers [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28340">A Love Letter From Your Father &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8221; I will do something new. Do you want to see it? I will make a way when there is no way. (43:18-19) I will go before you and make the rough places smooth. I will shatter the barriers that block your way and will give you treasures, wealth from secret places so that you will know that it is I, the Lord God &#8220;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is so inspiring!!!  I pray Jesus&#8217; Spirit continues to teach us, our family, friends, clients, and world it!</p>
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		<title>The Way Bad/ &#8220;Sin&#8221; Disappears In Us</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/09/29/ros/the-way-bad-sin-disappears-in-us/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 17:16:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kudzu Christians &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8221; until we receive glorified bodies, we each possess the power of indwelling sin in our bodies. (See Romans 7:21-23) As we trust Christ at each moment, His life empowers us to walk in victory. However, when we fail to depend on Him, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28339">Kudzu Christians &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8221; until we receive glorified bodies, we each possess the power of indwelling sin in our bodies. (See Romans 7:21-23) As we trust Christ at each moment, His life empowers us to walk in victory. However, when we fail to depend on Him, we yield ourselves to the power of sin.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>The is a very good article on God revealing healing.  However it needs to be read in light of Jesus taking away sin and it&#8217;s power by us being open to it/Him by faith.  May it be so that we depend of Jesus every moment to experience the victory.  </p>
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		<title>Zinc Food Sources</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 19:20:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Zinc Food Sources: 

&#8221; zinc helps in the production of about 100 enzymes in your body, builds you a healthy immune system, maintains your senses of smell and taste and is needed for DNA synthesis.
Foods Containing Zinc

Zinc is very much associated with protein foods. Thus, you may assume that most foods high in zinc are [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.nutritional-supplements-health-guide.com/zinc-food-sources.html">Zinc Food Sources</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8221; zinc helps in the production of about 100 enzymes in your body, builds you a healthy immune system, maintains your senses of smell and taste and is needed for DNA synthesis.
Foods Containing Zinc

Zinc is very much associated with protein foods. Thus, you may assume that most foods high in zinc are protein-rich as well. The best sources of zinc include beef, lamb, pork, crabmeat, turkey, chicken, lobster, clams and salmon. 



If you are a vegetarian, you will most probably intake less zinc that those who have meat-based diets. Good zinc food sources aside from meats are dairy products such as milk and cheese, yeast, peanuts, beans, and wholegrain cereals, brown rice, whole wheat bread, potato and yogurt. Of all these vegetarian zinc foods, pumpkin seeds offer one of the most concentrated non-meat food sources of zinc. 
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		<title>Experience God&#8217;s Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 15:56:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Learning to Receive God&#8217;s Love &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ: 

&#8220;Imagine Jesus walking into the room where you are right now. He walks across the room and stands directly in front of you. He reaches out and puts His arms around you, and pulls you close to Himself to hug [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28333">Learning to Receive God&#8217;s Love &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Imagine Jesus walking into the room where you are right now. He walks across the room and stands directly in front of you. He reaches out and puts His arms around you, and pulls you close to Himself to hug you.

Relax. Still your busy mind. Just rest in His embrace. He gently presses His face against your own and quietly whispers in your ear, &lsquo;I love you so much. Do you know how proud I am of you? I love you more than you can possibly know. Sh-h-h. Be still and know that I love you.&rsquo; Listen to Him. Wait until you sense an inner calmness. Ask Him to speak a personal word, just to you. Listen. Do you hear His voice? Linger here, in this still, quiet place, and allow Him to express His love. Wait &#8211; until you know it is appropriate to resume normal activity. Revel in His love. Don&rsquo;t rush this exercise.

Are you uncomfortable with such an exercise as the one described in the preceding paragraphs? Is there anything unbiblical about what I have described? Is there anything untrue about the above scenario? Jesus does love you just as I have described. He does embrace you in His arms and longs to express His love to you in meaningful ways. I haven&rsquo;t asked you to pretend anything, but rather by faith to see in your mind&rsquo;s eye something that is real.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an excellent mediative exercise which facilitated me in shedding a tear! May the Father allow us to use our imagination to place our wishes before God and relax in His love.  This article offers great prayers to ask the Sprit to enable giving/receiving more love!</p>
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		<title>Teen Birth Rates Higher in Highly Religious States</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/09/18/cal/teen-birth-rates-higher-in-highly-religious-states/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 09:34:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cal</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yahoo! News


U.S. states whose residents have more conservative religious beliefs on average tend to have higher rates of teenagers giving birth, a new study suggests.The relationship could be due to the fact that communities with such religious beliefs a literal interpretation of the Bible, for instance may frown upon contraception, researchers say. If that same [...]]]></description>
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U.S. states whose residents have more conservative religious beliefs on average tend to have higher rates of teenagers giving birth, a new study suggests.The relationship could be due to the fact that communities with such religious beliefs a literal interpretation of the Bible, for instance may frown upon contraception, researchers say. If that same culture isn&#8217;t successfully discouraging teen sex, the pregnancy and birth rates rise. </blockquote>

<p>This is a remarkably well done study. We have known for years that Fundamentalist Evangelical states tend to have really high rates of teen pregnancy &#8212; but this reality was always written off under the line that the other states are just aborting the children.</p><p></p>

<p>A line, we now learn, that is not even remotely true.</p><p></p>

<p>Apparently, even when you factor in those abortions, the fear, denial, shame, avoidance of the subject, abstinence based education, teen chastity balls/purity ring thing and the absence of credible teen education in contraception is doing nothing to stop teen sex &#8212; and a lot to help the whole, &#8220;Be fruitful and multiply,&#8221; thing.</p><p></p>

<p>Perhaps someone should have had a talk with Paul&#8230; His contention that the, &#8220;The law kills but the Spirit brings life,&#8221; seems to have finally been proven false.</p><p></p>

<p>The laws of Fundamentalist Evangelicalism DEFINITELY do bring forth life from teen girls&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Resting in Faith</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/08/07/ros/resting-in-faith/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 15:28:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are You Dying To Rest? - Grace Walk Ministries:...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28224">Are You Dying To Rest? &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8221; I didn&rsquo;t know that I had already died with Christ and was able to cease from my own works, living instead out of His finished work.

The idea of being called by Christ to a place of rest often contradicts the default setting of contemporary Christian thought. We live in a society where people go on vacation with their cell phones, Palm Pilots and laptop computers. To rest in Christ is a concept which often requires a radical paradigm shift for many people.

To rest in Christ, trusting Him to express His life through us, sounds lazy and negligent after having lived in the wilderness of legalism for such a long time. Many mistakenly think of rest as some sort of passivity, which it is not. Resting in Christ simply means trusting Him to be our Life-Source, depending upon Him to empower our actions with His strength and direction.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a really clear article on what it means to rest in Christ, that he took away our/the sins of the world and let His love show.  May it be so for us/the world.  </p>
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		<title>HANDLING CRISIS/JUST SHOWING UNDERSTANDING</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/08/01/ros/handling-crisisjust-showing-understanding/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 17:45:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When Hurricanes Come - Grace Walk Ministries:::...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28218">When Hurricanes Come &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;What are we to do when we believe a hurricane is coming into our lives? We do what Remaila said. We make our preparations. We do so by making sure that everything in life is grounded in the love and sovereignty of the One we profess loves us too much to do us any harm. We give all that we are and all that we have to Him. We recognize that this world is temporary and choose not to allow ourselves to draw our identity from it. We hold a loose grip on everything and everybody, realizing that only God determines what we can hold on to throughout our lives.

Then we entrust ourselves to God. We affirm by faith (not feelings) that He is in control &#8211; that nothing can or will happen in our lives which is beyond the bounds of His authority or the scope of His love for us. We trust Him. It&rsquo;s that simple. We don&rsquo;t always understand. We just trust. We don&rsquo;t always feel like He is loving us through our circumstances. We just trust.

We entrust ourselves to the love of One who promised to never leave or forsake us. We lash ourselves to Romans 8:28 and refuse to let go. The storms may rage. The winds may blow. The waves may surge. But we know that our security is in the love of the One who loved us and gave Himself for us.

Do you see clouds on the horizon of your own life? Don&rsquo;t be afraid. The Bible says that those clouds are &lsquo;the dust of His feet&rsquo; (Nahum 1:3). As storms approach, simply make your preparations and then entrust yourself to God.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>THIS IS A GREAT ARTICLE SO WE DO NOT try to handle crisis/conflicts in our own strength.  It show what that means.  However it still can come across that way if we are not JUST OPEN to his truth/trust.</p>
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		<title>Just Showing Understanding</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 15:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.positivelivingtv.com/relationships/168-conflict-resolution-without-words">Conflict Resolution Without Words &#8211; Positive Living Television</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;If you believe that you or your partner are bad or wrong for your feelings, behavior, or point of view, then you will not be able to let go of judgment. You will move toward compassion when you understand and accept that each of you has very good reasons for your feelings, behavior, and point of view. Try compassionately accepting yourself and your partner and see what happens!&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>Although I do not agree with some of the wording of some points, this article offers some basic great points to facilitate openness.  GOD GAVE US OUR FREEDOM, BY JESUS TAKING AWAY OUR/THE SINS OF THE WORLD TO SEE THINGS OUR WAY.  HE DOESN&#8217;T ENFORCE HIS VIEW ON US, ESPECIALLY IN CONFLICT. WE CAN ASK HIM.  MAY IT BE SO FOR OUR WORLD.  </p>
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		<title>Just Show The Sufficiency of Christ in You</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 14:26:19 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28217">Don&rsquo;t Ask, Appropriate! &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Do you need wisdom? That&rsquo;s Him. Do you need righteousness? That&rsquo;s Him. Holiness? That&rsquo;s Him, too. Do you need sanctification, guidance, strength? It&rsquo;s all Him.

What do you need today? His name is IAM. I AM what? Anything you need. All the fullness of I AM is in Jesus. &lsquo;For it was the Father&#8217;s good pleasure for all the fullness to dwell in Him&rsquo; (Col.1:19). All the fullness of Jesus is in you.

Don&rsquo;t pray for what you already have. Just appropriate the sufficiency of the Christ who is living in you. You don&rsquo;t have to struggle or beg for what you think you need. You already have it. Just let Jesus be Jesus in and through you.

&#8220;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an excellent article on just resting in the grace of understanding/knowing that we have everything of Christ in us now.  May it be so.  </p>
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		<title>Our Relationship/Identity in Christ</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/07/19/ros/our-relationshipidentity-in-christ/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2009 18:41:33 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28186">Rearing Teenagers &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Teens are crying out to know, &lsquo;Who am I? Do I have value? Am I lovable?&rsquo; Don&rsquo;t undermine a person&rsquo;s basic identity by striking a blow at who they are. Deal instead with the behavior. &lsquo;You lied to me and that stands in contradiction to everything I know to be true about you!&rsquo; is a better response than calling your child a liar.

2. Allow your teen to see the authenticity of your own relationship to Christ.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a great article defining a relationship with Christ.  May it be so for us, our family, friends, clients, our kids schools, and the world.  However it still has a focus on sin that Jesus dealt with on the cross so it needn&#8217;t be a focus.  It does allude to looking at the need/feeling that caused it. </p>
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		<title>75 Ways to Encourage</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2009 17:28:48 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.freeprintablebehaviorcharts.com/ways_to_say_good_job.htm">Ways To Say Good Job To Your Child, How To Say Good Job</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;75 Ways To Say &#8216;Good Job!&#8217;&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>Excellent article!</p>
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		<title>God&#8217;s Love in Pain/Crisises</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/07/17/ros/gods-love-in-paincrisises/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 17:17:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When God Rolls By - Grace Walk Ministries:::Sha...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalk.org/articles_view.asp?columnid=0&#038;articleid=28184">When God Rolls By &#8211; Grace Walk Ministries:::Sharing the Love &#038; Life of Christ</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Don&rsquo;t allow the circumstances of your life to be what you use to determine how your Father feels about you. Circumstances can&rsquo;t tell you that. If you want to know how He feels toward you, look beyond the temporal situations of life and see the cross.

At the cross, you will find an expression of His divine love for you. He loves you so much that He paid the highest price to ensure that you were His for all eternity. Sometimes He shouts His love in large letters. At others times, he gently whispers His love in the recesses of our hearts. In whatever ways He chooses to speak into your life, you can be assured that you are loved. He does care . . . and nothing is ever going to change that. Listen for Him to speak to you this week and you will hear the words, &lsquo;I love you.&rsquo;

&#8220;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a fantastic article of encouragement when crisises happen in our lives which cause us to feel that God doesn&#8217;t love us.  I pray we are all reminded by His grace at every moment that Jesus death/risenness on the cross is all we will every need to believe/experience it.  </p>
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		<title>Steve McVey</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/06/30/ros/steve-mcvey-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 14:41:29 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalkministries.blogspot.com/">Steve McVey</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Yep, that&#8217;s my daughter&#8217;s children! Jeremy really is a sweet boy. No, really. I&#8217;ll admit though that his train seriously jumped the track with that incident. 

It&#8217;s noteworthy that the first response that popped into his seven year old head was about the law and jail. The little legalist &#8211; takes after his dad&#8217;s side of the family. 

I&#8217;m kidding, of course, but the issue here is that it is the bent of the flesh to think in legalistic terms. Would it be wrong to do this or that? Would I be punished for doing it? 

We miss the point altogether. It&#8217;s not about right versus wrong or about punishment. The catalyst for our lives is to be love. When our lifestyle is grounded in our union with Triune Love, we live from that benchmark, not a set of rules that come with a corresponding set of rewards and punishment. We act lovingly because Love is our DNA. In Him we live (and love) and move and exist. 

So, when your own behavior jumps track at times, don&#8217;t look upward to an imaginary Judge of the Universe who stands ready to send you to jail. Look into the face of Pure Love and you&#8217;ll find yourself wanting to behave well on the basis of His attitude and actions toward you.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>THIS IS A VERY GOOD GRACE DISCIPLINE ARTICLE.  However this conversation would be best had after the feelings of both kids are validated.  I have found it is sometimes not necessary after the Spirit convinces the child that he is sad for the hurt caused to the sibling/friend.  </p>
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		<title>&#8230;my master is smart and he SQUIRREL!!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 10:14:26 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Disney on ADD/ADHD.</p><p></p>

<p>If you are not laughing, you never met a child with either diagnosis&#8230;</p><p></p>

<p><em>Yes, I know this is a copyright violation &#8212; and it&#8217;s well on its way to being the most pirated clip in human history&#8230;</em></p>
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		<title>Super Foods</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 May 2009 16:54:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA['Superfoods' Everyone Needs: 

&#34;Top Superfoods ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.webmd.com/diet/features/superfoods-everyone-needs">&#8216;Superfoods&#8217; Everyone Needs</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Top Superfoods Offering Super Health Protection
Beans
Blueberries
Broccoli
Oats
Oranges
Pumpkin
Salmon
Soy
Spinach
Tea (green or black)
Tomatoes
Turkey
Walnuts
Yogurt&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>I have also heard that guacomole, flax seed, and dark chocolate are included.  </p>
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		<title>Honouring/Changing By Just Resting in God&#8217;s Love</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2009/03/26/ros/honouringchanging-by-just-resting-in-gods-love/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Mar 2009 14:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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&#34;The LORD's delight is in those ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalkministries.blogspot.com/">Steve McVey</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;The LORD&#8217;s delight is in those who honor him, those who put their hope in his unfailing love. Psalm 147:11

For many years, I taught people that the way to honor the Lord was to do what He said &#8211; to obey Him. Obedience &#8211; that was the most important thing in the Christian life, as I saw it. But the problem was that, no matter how hard I tried and how sincere I was, I couldn&#8217;t seem to be consistent in that area. 

This verse from Psalms shows that the Lord is honored when we put our hope in His unfailing love. It isn&#8217;t our obedience, our faith, or even our level of love for Him that honors Him most. It is by learning to rest in His unconditional, unfailing and unchanging love that He is most honored.

As we learn to accept His acceptance, the calm that comes over us is amazing. No more do we have to struggle to stay on God&#8217;s good side. No longer do we condemn ourselves because we think we aren&#8217;t doing enough to keep Him in a good mood toward us. We come to learn that our Father&#8217;s love has nothing to do with how good we are, but has everything to do with how good He is.

Then, lo and behold, the realization of His unfailing love begins to transform us. We find ourselves being motivated to live a godly lifestyle because we want to behave, not because we think it&#8217;s the right thing to do. We become increasingly free to relax and just be ourselves, knowing that He loves us no matter what. The love of God for us will mature us, motivate us and minister to us every day. Life increasingly becomes more and more about Him and not about us.
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<p></p><p>This is a great little article on revealing God&#8217;s healing/Finished Work by resting in the Father&#8217;s unconditional love for us! </p>
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		<title>God&#8217;s Freedom Vs Minding Your Ps and Qs</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 14:22:36 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gracewalkministries.blogspot.com/">Steve McVey</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Living in God-given freedom will inevitably bring the scorn of the self-righteous down on you. Jesus stayed in trouble because the way He acted didn&#8217;t fit the expectations of the religious crowd who thought it was their duty to police everybody else to make sure they were minding their P&#8217;s &#038; Q&#8217;s. When He enjoyed a good meal and a glass of wine with friends, they called Jesus &#8216;a glutton and a drunkard.&#8217; (See Luke 7:34) &#8220;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is a good brief article that talks about the confusion of seeing Jesus took away they sins of the world.  Regrettably the world often falls into feelings of self-righteousness which makes it seems that Jesus did not 
take away all the bad.  May it be so that we have his we have his true understanding/confidence/trust/freedom/rest.   </p>
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		<title>Fruit and Veggie Slushies/Smoothies</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 19:27:31 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://eatsprouts.com/blend/green.html">Green Smoothie Recipes + In-depth Info on Green Smoothies</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Here&#8217;s a variety of Green Smoothie recipes chiefly from Frederic Patenaude &#8211; see&#160; his Green For Life program &#8211; includes 7-day green detox cleanse and Green For Life book by Victoria Boutenko.

Always blend the fruit first &#8211;

2-3 cups any greens of your choice, 2 cups papaya, 2 oranges, 3 dates

1 handful lettuce leaves, 1 handful mint, 4 bananas, 1/2 cup water

Winter Smoothie &#8211; 1 cup organic frozen berries (any kind), 2 cups fresh spinach, 1/4 inch fresh ginger, water

1/2 bunch romaine lettuce, 1 cup strawberries, 2 bananas, water

4-5 kale leaves, 4 apples, 1/2 lemon juiced, water

2 big handfuls mixed baby greens, 2 pears, 2 mangoes, 1 cup fresh or frozen blueberries

Choc-mint &#8211; 2 cups spinach, 10-12 mint leaves, 3 bananas, 2 Tbs. carob powder, 1 cup water

1 handful of spinach, 2 stalks of celery, 2 bananas, 2 pears, 1 apple, 1 cup water

1 small handful of spinach, 2 cups arugula, 2-3 mangoes, 1 cup water

1/2 head romaine lettuce, 1 small pineapple, 1 large mango, 1-inch fresh ginger

1 handful wild greens (e.g. dandelion), 1 small handful mint leaves, 3 cups honeydew melon

3-4 stalks celery, 2 ripe persimmons, 1 banana

1 handful chard leaves, 5-6 kale leaves, 3 large bananas, 1 cup water

1 handful parsley, 3 cups of peeled papaya

Do you see that anything goes? Buy bunches of greens, a variety of fresh fruits, a GoGreen Sprouter, and CHANGE YOUR LIFE.

The First Step to Health is One Green Smoothie a Day. How much time and money we save on dental and medical bills &#8211; when we get the kitchen equipment we need to enjoy Mother Nature&#8217;s food.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is great for selective kid eaters.  It is a wondeful way to combine breakfast and lunch when your really busy. You can&#8217;t even taste the veggies, except don&#8217;t use snap peas!  </p>
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		<title>Jesus Tells of Our Righteousness In Him</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Nov 2008 16:46:46 +0000</pubDate>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8221; all our sins have been paid for (see Colossians 2:13-14); why would the Holy Spirit call our attention to them now? Hebrews 10:1-2 says that when we know we are cleansed, we lose consciousness of sins. 

Make no mistake about it. Your sins have been put away. What the Holy Spirit does when we now sin is to convict/convince us of who we really are. He shows us that we are able to live like the righteous child of God He has made us to be. He motivates us to live like that and, in the process, we will abandon the sin that caused us to stumble in the first place.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an clear explanation of the reason we do not call attention to sin.  We let Jesus tell us who we are really are now with Him inside us and the truth.</p>
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		<title>Reflections on Releasing Control</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2008 15:50:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[GV Jan 2008: 

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.GraceWalk.org/web/pageid/67566/pages.asp">GV Jan 2008</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Control freaks &#8211; that&rsquo;s what we all are when we try to be in charge of our own lives. God never intended for us to be in control. Controlling things is His role, not ours. &lsquo;My life is out of control!&rsquo; people have tearfully said to me at times in the counseling office. What they really meant was &lsquo;My life is out of my control and I don&rsquo;t like it!&rsquo;
&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160; Imagine a baby holding a pair of new shoes in his hands. He is playing with them and happy they belong to him. His parent reaches down to take the shoes and put them on the child&rsquo;s feet. All the child sees is that his shoes are being taken out of his hands. He doesn&rsquo;t like it. He wants to control them and keep them in his hands, but he will never walk in them that way.
&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160; The parent takes the shoes from the hand of the child and the baby begins to cry. He is overwhelmed with anger, confusion and regret that his shoes are being taken from him. He screams. He kicks in protest. He is losing control of the thing he loves and wants to hold. He doesn&rsquo;t understand what his parent is doing. But the parent understands and does what is necessary to enable the child to walk &#8211; whether the child likes it or even understands.
&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160; The goal is to enable the child to enjoy the shoes to the fullest by walking in them. The parent knows that if the shoes are used for their designed purpose, the child will truly benefit and not simply be amused by them.
&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160;&#160; Only a baby thinks the highest pleasure is to hold them in his hands. He doesn&rsquo;t see the whole picture. So the parent overrules the baby&rsquo;s wishes and does what is needful. Eventually the child will understand. When he does, he is thrilled, and more important than that, he walks.
Do you want to walk? What are you holding onto that you need to release? Let it go. God knows what He is doing.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an excellent article for parenting and dealing with the crisies of life.  I pray for this rest and openness to genuinely let go of our way after working through the emotions individually/together with others.      </p>
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		<title>Grace Is Not Licence</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 16:31:24 +0000</pubDate>
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</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;d not the death of Christ deal with the root cause of sinful behavior:&#160; sinful hearts?&#160; For me, a pat answer of God&#8217;s judgment merely raises many many more questions.
We are tempted to be deceived into believing that grace is too light on sin.&#160; However, my heart yearns to testify that it is true grace alone that exposes sin for the subtle dead lie that it is.&#160; Apart from grace, sin is limited to negative-looking behaviors.&#160; Apart from grace, we are tempted to see the need for more of God&#8217;s judgment, in addition to the cross.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an excellent article on allowing God&#8217;s trust in us because of the 100% sufficiency of Christ as our life.  May the Lord replace our fears with the revealing of His security/courage/peace/Finished Work.   </p>
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		<title>Attack ad targets hot dogs as cancer risk</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 18:40:52 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.cbc.ca/health/story/2008/08/27/hot-dogs.html">Attack ad targets hot dogs as cancer risk</a>: 

</p><p><blockquote>&#8220;Their report last November said eating 50 grams a day of processed meats for several years increases colorectal cancer risk by 21 per cent. That equals about one hot dog a day or two deli slices of bologna or five slices of bacon.

The duration of daily consumption linked with that higher risk is uncertain. Colorectal cancer was diagnosed between three and 19 years after the studies began, but participants could have been eating processed meats for years before that, said dietitian Karen Collins, nutrition adviser with the American Institute for Cancer Research, a group that analyzed the studies.

For a U.S. adult, eating one hot dog daily for several years would increase the average risk of getting colorectal cancer, which is 5.8 per cent, to 7 per cent&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>a good clear article</p>
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		<title>Tonsilitis</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 16:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<blockquote>
  <p>Signs and symptoms<br />
  Signs and symptoms of tonsillitis include:</p>

  <p>Red, swollen tonsils<br />
  White patches on the tonsils<br />
  Sore throat<br />
  Difficult or painful swallowing<br />
  Headache<br />
  Fever and chills<br />
  Enlarged, tender glands (lymph nodes) in the jaw and neck<br />
  Loss of voice (laryngitis)<br />
  Abdominal pain in children</p>
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		<title>Feeling the Closeness of God Like Kids</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Dec 2007 17:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q&#38;A: Legalism has caused me to lose my closeness with God.:&#8220;When you read Paul's letters, for example, make sure you notice how he always establishes the reality of who the believers really are.  In Ephesians 5, Paul is addressing the believers as &#8221;beloved children&#8220; (v1), &#8221;saints&#8220; (v3), NOT &#8221;sons of disobedience&#8220; (v6&#38;7), &#8221;formerly darkness, but NOW you are light in the Lord&#8220; (v8).  His admonition was for the believers to live like the believers they were.&#8221;This is an excellent article encouraging others not to feel legalism has forever stripped them of their feeling of closeness of God.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://theshovel.net/questions/dig.asp?TID=80&amp;PN=1">Q&#38;A: Legalism has caused me to lose my closeness with God.</a>:</p>

<p><blockquote>&#8220;When you read Paul&#8217;s letters, for example, make sure you notice how he always establishes the reality of who the believers really are. In Ephesians 5, Paul is addressing the believers as &#8221;beloved children&#8220; (v1), &#8221;saints&#8220; (v3), NOT &#8221;sons of disobedience&#8220; (v6&#38;7), &#8221;formerly darkness, but NOW you are light in the Lord&#8220; (v8). His admonition was for the believers to live like the believers they were.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an excellent article encouraging others not to feel legalism has forever stripped them of their feeling of the closeness of God.  It reminds us to not put it on our children as it may lessen their natural love for the Lord.  </p>
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		<title>No Child&#8217;s Cold Medicine Safe</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[calgary.ctv.ca - Calgary news from CTV:&#8220;Even though they focus on children under six, the doctors also say there's no evidence to show over the counter cold medicines work for any child under twelve.Doctors suggest parents give their kids acetaminophen or ibuprofen for fever and aches.  For more information visit the New England Journal of Medicine&#8217;s web site.&#8221;]]></description>
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<p><blockquote>&#8220;Even though they focus on children under six, the doctors also say there&#8217;s no evidence to show over the counter cold medicines work for any child under twelve.<br /><br />Doctors suggest parents give their kids acetaminophen or ibuprofen for fever and aches.  <br /><br />For more information visit the New England Journal of Medicine&#8217;s web site.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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		<title>Plastics Risk for Babies/Small Children?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Nov 2007 01:46:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[TheStar.com &#124; Ontario &#124; Chemical hurts children, demonstrators say:&#8220;Smith was referring to a chemical that is used in hard plastic baby bottles, sippy cups and the lining of some food cans.  Bisphenol A is known to leach into food.  More than 130 peer-reviewed studies have associated bisphenol A with a variety of health problems, including breast cancer, obesity, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and a wide range of other developmental problems, according to Aaron Freeman, the policy director of Environmental Defence.&#8221;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.thestar.com/News/Ontario/article/278154">
    TheStar.com | Ontario | Chemical hurts children, demonstrators say
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<p><blockquote>&#8220;Smith was referring to a chemical that is used in hard plastic baby bottles, sippy cups and the lining of some food cans. Bisphenol A is known to leach into food. More than 130 peer-reviewed studies have associated bisphenol A with a variety of health problems, including breast cancer, obesity, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and a wide range of other developmental problems, according to Aaron Freeman, the policy director of Environmental Defence.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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		<title>Are Bullies Just Leaders To Be Shaped?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Nov 2007 21:45:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How about doing that again and finding a way to include everyone?&#8220;&#8221;It seems the other children follow your direction, will you make sure they each get a turn?&#8220;&#8221;I see that being first in line is very important to you.  As the leader, will you show the rest of the line how to wait patiently and quietly for the teacher?&#8220;&#8221;You are a real expert at this game!  Will you show the other children how to play too?&#8220;&#8221;This is an excellent article that takes punishment out of the equation.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.calgaryschild.com/content/view/330/54/">Calgary&#8217;s Child &#8211; The Bully in All of Us</a>:</p>

<p><blockquote>&#8220;&#8221;My, you are very influential. How about doing that again and finding a way to include everyone?&#8220;&#8221;It seems the other children follow your direction, will you make sure they each get a turn?&#8220;&#8221;I see that being first in line is very important to you. As the leader, will you show the rest of the line how to wait patiently and quietly for the teacher?&#8220;&#8221;You are a real expert at this game! Will you show the other children how to play too?&#8220;&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an excellent article that takes punishment out of the equation.  If offers excellent ideas on turning the negative into a positive.  Since Jesus took away sin wouldn&#8217;t this be the best way to bless the identity of Jesus in a child?  </p>
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		<title>Negativity Breeds Negativity</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Nov 2007 21:39:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Calgary's Child - The EIGHT SECRETS To Family Happiness:&#8220;One of the most important keys to family happiness is maintaining a positive attitude and helping encourage positive attitudes among the children and your spouse....  Whether you begin exercising or spend a half hour each day meditating (which ever way you prefer to &#8216;meditate&#8217;), finding a way to reduce the amount of stress you bring into a household is essential....  The positive refram and seeing them in the Finished Work of christ may ecnourage a positive identity in Christ.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.calgaryschild.com/content/view/332/54/">Calgary&#8217;s Child &#8211; The EIGHT SECRETS To Family Happiness</a>:</p>

<p><blockquote>&#8220;One of the most important keys to family happiness is maintaining a positive attitude and helping encourage positive attitudes among the children and your spouse. Negativity breeds negativity. Whether you begin exercising or spend a half hour each day meditating (which ever way you prefer to &#8216;meditate&#8217;), finding a way to reduce the amount of stress you bring into a household is essential. &#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an good article on focusing on the positive and relaxing to minimize conflicts.  We can choose to see our child as demanding or determined.  The positive reframe and seeing them in the Finished Work of Jesus, may encourage a positive identity in Christ.  </p>
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		<title>Art, Music, and Dance for Kids</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Nov 2007 21:22:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Music - Creative Kids:&#8220;Freely dance a celtic jig, a lively polka, or a steamy salsa while developing rhythm, coordination, and beat.  Let your child refine what they already do naturally, and come and have fun&#8221;No right or wrong.  It is just letting a kid's imagination develop so they are not black and white thinkers.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.creativekidsclasses.ca/music.html">Music &#8211; Creative Kids</a>:</p>

<p><blockquote>&#8220;Freely dance a celtic jig, a lively polka, or a steamy salsa while developing rhythm, coordination, and beat.  Let your child refine what they already do naturally, and come and have fun&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>No right or wrong.  It is just letting a kid&#8217;s imagination develop so they are not black and white thinkers.  </p>
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		<title>The Cons of Immunizations</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2007 15:01:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No need for panic, doctors say after Toronto child contracts drug-resistant ailment:&#8220;Yaffe said the child had been otherwise healthy before coming down with the bug and had received all the recommended vaccinations, according to hospital officials.  The child had not travelled outside of Ontario before becoming ill more than two weeks ago.&#8221;This is an interesting article because this bacteria was a new strain that could not be vaccinated against.  I pray all are protected.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.canada.com/topics/bodyandhealth/story.html?id=3c242cbd-62f3-4789-96e7-94ddf80cab34&amp;k=9656">No need for panic, doctors say after Toronto child contracts drug-resistant ailment</a>:</p>

<p><blockquote>&#8220;Yaffe said the child had been otherwise healthy before coming down with the bug and had received all the recommended vaccinations, according to hospital officials. The child had not travelled outside of Ontario before becoming ill more than two weeks ago.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an interesting article because this bacteria was a new strain that could not be vaccinated against.  I pray all are protected.</p>
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		<title>Mumps Immunizations</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2007 15:57:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[calgary.ctv.ca - Calgary news from CTV:&#8220;Even though most Albertans have been vaccinated when they're young doctors are learning one dose may not be enough.Most Canadians born after 1990 did receive two doses of the vaccine, one as an infant and another a few years later and they shouldn't be affected by the outbreak.In the second phase of the initiative, all Albertans aged 17 to 26 years who may be at risk of the disease will be targeted for a mumps vaccination.  /Mumps is generally a mild viral illness that results in fever, swelling and tenderness of one or more salivary glands, located at the angle of the jaw....  Complications of mumps can include inflammation of the testes or ovaries, meningitis and more serious infections of the brain.&#8221;Even though I have given the fear that my girls could get meningitis, He seemed to say it will be allright whatever we decide for boosters.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://calgary.ctv.ca/servlet/RTGAMArticleHTMLTemplate/B,C/20071107/mumps?brand=generic&amp;hub=&amp;tf=CFCNPlus/generic/hubs/frontpage.html&amp;cf=CFCNPlus/generic/hubs/frontpage.cfg&amp;slug=mumps&amp;date=20071107&amp;archive=CFCNPlus&amp;ad_page_name=&amp;nav=home&amp;subnav=fullstory&amp;site_cfcn=http://calgary.ctv.ca">calgary.ctv.ca &#8211; Calgary news from CTV</a>:</p>

<p><blockquote>&#8220;Even though most Albertans have been vaccinated when they&#8217;re young doctors are learning one dose may not be enough.<br /><br />Most Canadians born after 1990 did receive two doses of the vaccine, one as an infant and another a few years later and they shouldn&#8217;t be affected by the outbreak.<br /><br />In the second phase of the initiative, all Albertans aged 17 to 26 years who may be at risk of the disease will be targeted for a mumps vaccination. <br />/<br />Mumps is generally a mild viral illness that results in fever, swelling and tenderness of one or more salivary glands, located at the angle of the jaw. <br /><br />But officials say some people can be infected but show no symptoms and thereby unknowingly infect others. <br /><br />Complications of mumps can include inflammation of the testes or ovaries, meningitis and more serious infections of the brain.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>Even though I have given the fear/confusion that my girls could get meningitis, He seemed to say it will be allright whatever we decide for boosters.  I have peace at this point rather than terror when we vaccinated before.  I pray so for all He lives out His faith/protection for us to trust Him in our choices.    </p>
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		<title>The new marketing world&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2007/11/07/cal/the-new-marketing-world/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Nov 2007 10:32:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cal</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just got this one today. It's a classic examp...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just got this one today. It&#8217;s a classic example of the new marketing systems now being employed via the web&#8230;</p>

<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=azgBhZfcqaQ#"><img src="http://img.youtube.com/vi/azgBhZfcqaQ#/default.jpg" width="130" height="97" border=0/></a></p><p></p>

<p>We may as well just admit it. The preceding has been a paid advertisement for Britax Regent and is a chief marketing system for the <a href="http://www.kyledavidmiller.org/pages/3297/Merchandise.htm">following site&#8230;</a></p><p></p>

<p>And, it includes just a few inconsistencies&#8230;</p><p></p>

<p>The <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/ad/ad314.pdf">CDC reports</a> that the average age for an 80lb child is between 10 and 12 yrs of age. Apparently, they plan to keep some children in a car seat until they are teens? How to transform your child into a permanent social outcast in his or her Jr. High in one easy lesson&#8230;</p><p></p>

<p>The stats on seat belt failure date from cars manufactured on cars before the 70&#8217;s and even <a href="http://www.texlawyers.com/law_firm/legal%20articles/airbag_seatbelt_product_liability.html">lawyers will admit it.</a> (Getting truth out of them should be cause for national celebration&#8230;)</p><p></p>

<p>The accident type is a roll over &#8212; yet the video demonstrates an accident type mostly caused by seat belt misuse (and unrelated to the video subject) as proof of the danger.</p><p></p>

<p>The other booster seat worked &#8212; the death was caused by a rare seat belt failure &#8212; so buy a new car seat???</p><p></p>

<p>Video claims it is recommended &#8212; by who? Definitely not the <a href="http://www.nhtsa.dot.gov/people/injury/childps/safetycheck/OccProtetcFor_Children1.pdf">National Highway Traffic Safety Administration or the US government&#8230;</a></p><p></p>

<p>Finally, there have been aggressive attempts for years to mandate 5pt harness systems in all vehicles. The Federal governments of both the US and Canada have refused them.  Reason? They are a pain in the butt, no one will wear them. Seat belts that are worn are worth a lot more then the small increase in safety offered by the 5pt systems no one will bother with wearing.</p><p></p>

<p>In years gone by, you had to have accurate ads or someone would sue. In an age of user generated content, who is there to sue?</p><p></p>

<p>Classic FUD &#8212; Fear, Uncertainty and Despair. It&#8217;s the marketing currency of our brave new world &#8212; and there is no watch-dog&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Discipline in Parenting</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Oct 2007 14:49:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Q&#38;A: True discipline:&#8220;The reality of our total acceptance is the basis for true discipline, for our Father is faithful in maturing us. He works in us FROM the image of his son TOWARD the image of his son.  In other words, beginning and ending in the reality of Christ in us. He is teaching us who it is we really are, and He uses whatever means He desires to cause us to see this.  &#8221;This is an excellent encouraging short article that says discipline is constant care.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://theshovel.net/questions/dig.asp?TID=117&amp;PN=1">Q&#38;A: True discipline</a>:</p>

<p><blockquote>&#8220;The reality of our total acceptance is the basis for true discipline, for our Father is faithful in maturing us.&#160; He works in us FROM the image of his son TOWARD the image of his son.&#160; In other words, beginning and ending in the reality of Christ in us.&#160; He is teaching us who it is we really are, and He uses whatever means He desires to cause us to see this.&#160;&#8221;</blockquote></p>

<p></p><p>This is an excellent encouraging short article that says discipline is constant care.  I pray parents/schools would understand for believing children God is in them.  </p>
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		<title>Cervical Cancer</title>
		<link>http://www.henze-associates.com/blog/2007/10/19/ros/cervical-cancer/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2007 14:23:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ros</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cervical Cancer - Cancer - Body &#38; Health:&#8220;It's been shown repeatedly that women who are young when they lose their virginity and women who have had many sexual partners are at higher risk of the disease.  However, most people have been exposed to HPV in their lifetime.People who smoke are at higher risk of this disease, as with most cancers....  The most dramatic risk elevation was found in First Nations women, who are 2 to 6 times as likely to develop cervical cancer as non-Native women.&#8221;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://bodyandhealth.canada.com/channel_condition_info_details.asp?disease_id=242&amp;channel_id=12&amp;relation_id=10830&amp;rot=2">Cervical Cancer &#8211; Cancer &#8211; Body &#38; Health</a>:</p>

<p><blockquote>&#8220;It&#8217;s been shown repeatedly that women who are young when they lose their virginity and women who have had many sexual partners are at higher risk of the disease. However, most people have been exposed to HPV in their lifetime.People who smoke are at higher risk of this disease, as with most cancers. The risk also increases steadily with age. Women over age 65 are the most likely to develop cervical cancer. In Canadian studies, people with low incomes had consistently higher rates of cervical cancer. The most dramatic risk elevation was found in First Nations women, who are 2 to 6 times as likely to develop cervical cancer as non-Native women.&#8221;</blockquote></p>

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